Hello Verena
I recently had 11 year old twin girls attended with their mother, a 13 year old
girl also with her mother and a 16 year old girl with her aunt at my workshop.
They were a close group of friends that immigrated from Hong Kong to Victoria
BC. and shared a home together.
They had wanted to sign up for the two days workshop which I resisted and said
No too to the coordinator but agreed that they can attend the 3 hours intro. At
the intro, the 13 year old’s mother wanted to do a piece of work. I agreed on
condition that the 13 year old daughter wait outside while her mom gets her
work explored. They agreed. The daughter was only called in to join us and
stood in resource with all the Ancestors behind her mother and family.
The other teenagers stayed in the group all the time.
Next day all the teenagers arrived for the workshop and the mothers said that
all wanted to attend and the 13 year old girl reported to her mother that she
felt strong support of energy from her Ancestors and wanted to attend the 2
days workshop after the experience at the intro. I trusted then that I have the
blessings and permission of their Ancestors to serve under their supervision. I
was humbled once again.
The 11 year old twins wanted to stay for the mother’s constellation on the last
day of workshop and I had a gut feeling that it was a NO but they all insisted
again and so I explained that I will let the FIELD inform us. I had the Twins
represent themselves for the highest good because no one in the group would do
it?! Two representatives were picked and were given a paper each. One paper had
Yes and the other had No and these representative were told that they were free
to move and the Twins representing the highest good just stay put. The one with
the Yes paper immediately and practically ran out of the circle the moment she
was given the “blind” paper. “Blind” meaning no one knows what was written on
the papers and not even the Representatives nor I as the facilitator. I left it
to "bigger hands”/phenomenology .So in this way they were convinced and when
the mother did her constellation, it became very clear that the twins have been
taking care of their mother emotionally. A family trauma which I will not
discuss here.
Again the twins waited outside and were reintroduced back in and stood in
resource again with strong Ancestral support behind them.
I have heard that Dogs and Children know everything and it may be true…loyalty.
My experience has been that the FIELD protects and always decide who attends
and who do not.
Dear Verena, having shared what I have shared above, I would say that you can
always trust in your own gut feelings which I know that you already know
anyways.
The late Dietrich Weth whom I had the grace of hosting for him in the early
days allowed children. There was a 3 year old boy who attended with his aunty
was very instrumental in a healing movement for a lady to make the movement
towards her mother. Then there was a 6 year old girl who was a little Shaman
waving her hands and doing all sorts of mudra to move energy while her parents
were getting their work explored.
I did not know how to explain what is Mudra and goggle says:-
The meaning of ‘mudra’, which is a Sanskrit word, is ‘closure’ or ‘seal’. Mudra
hand positions are physical gestures that have an effect on the energy flow of
the body. The ancient practice of yoga links the hand mudras to the changing
spiritual and mental aspects of a person. The mudras are usually finger
positions like in the Anjali Mudra, where the hands are kept at the center of
the heart.
Thank you for allowing me to share my experience.
Love & Blessings to all of you and your families
Anutosh
http://www.anutoshhealingarts.com
On Jul 15, 2014, at 9:22 PM, Verena Giebels sahajo99@xxxxxxxx
[ConstellationTalk] <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Hi all,
A new client is asking if she could bring her 13 year old son to my next
introduction. My first impulse was for her to check out the work and then
decide for the next intro.
Does anybody have experience with children/teenagers in the circle? What are
your thoughts?
Thank you,
Verena
Carpe diem!
Verena Sahajo Giebels
Massage and Cranio-Sacral Therapy
Family Constellations
(001) 360 421 6296
www.bodysoulhealing.abmp.com
