Dear Hania,
Thank you for your focus on bonds. As you say, the need to belong is
primary.
Kind regards,
Thomas
On 10/20/2011 5:00 AM, Hania Moser wrote:
Hi Yasha
I think it'd be helpful to see the concept of family soul connections in
terms of bonds, formed by primary needs. That simple emphasising on BONDS
makes inclusion of all kinds of bonds, also these so called entanglements.
Bonds are not negative nor positive - thy are just facts.
It would be not full picture if we wouldn't see a whole spectrum of needs
and bonds serving a family.
Also it'd be valuable to emphasize that the fundamental need (more important
than food as shown in famous researches on deaths of orphans) is the need
for attachment, our primary bond with carer, forming in the begining of our
life. Attachment takes a greatest place in Bert concept of family,
formulated as the need to belong.
Regards
