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Digest #2412
1.1
Re: Exclusion by "Barbara Morgan"
1.2
Re: Exclusion by "Maria Dolenc"
2.1
Re: suffering from representatives by "Chuck Cogliandro" mkdrum1
2.2
Re: suffering from representatives by "Robert Grant"
2.3
Re: suffering from representatives by "Joe pirone"
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Re: Digest Number 2409 Suffering from Representatives by "gary stuart"
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1.1
Re: Exclusion
Tue Jan 28, 2014 6:46 am (PST) . Posted by:
"Barbara Morgan"
Interesting topic you raise Steven and one I am consistently involved
in my role as Editor of The Knowing Field.Building on my values for theediting
journal of a basically inclusive publication, I often find myself in the
position of wanting to include vigorously opposing points of view or sets
of values and that is a precarious and sometimes dangerous position to be
in. I experienced recently stepping into such a field and unconsciously
getting caught up in the field on more than one occasion during the
process. Fascinating.or
Whatever the wider, more spiritual aspects of inclusion and exclusion I
think on a personal level, the issue runs very deep and I think different
cultures manage this in different ways. Here in the UK (and do I have the
right to include Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland - or even Southern
Ireland in my generalised viewpoint?), I think we are masters (and
mistresses) at excluding anyone or anything we feel uncomfortable about
with. Cutting off from family members, work colleagues, friends, ratheris
than dealing with, or facing the hurt of, difficult and painful feelings
more the norm than the exception I suspect. And of course, I am notexclusion
exception here. I do my best to include but there are times when I too
exclude for whatever reason and I feel and have felt the pain of
on more than one occasion.may
My paternal grandfather was an excluded person. I never met him. None of
his five children had any contact with him for all of their adult lives.
The story, which I don't doubt was largely true, was that he was violent
and yet, through the constellation work, I have seen wider issues which
have strongly impacted his way of being. Building on what Katja says,this
man died within six weeks of my grandmother whom he hadn't seen for over50
years. The excluded cannot really ever be fully excluded I can't rememberwrote:
who said it, maybe Bert, but I like the saying:
"Those whom we reject we imitate."
I look forward to ongoing discussion of this scintillating topic.
Warm wishes to all
Barbara
On 23 January 2014 07:01, Steve Vinay Gunther <spirited@xxxxxxxxxxxx>
community
I am writing about a topic that's a little difficult.
In the constellation ethos, exclusion is understood, generally, to be a
source of entanglements.
One of the things I have really valued about the constellation
to beitself is the degree of inclusiveness that is widely exhibited. So many
different facilitators, with their different styles, yet there seems
inclusiveness isa general ability to get along. This open, field-oriented
apartsomething I find a bit special, and sets the constellation community
dialoguein my experience.
However, recently I was dismayed to find an unmistakable example of
exclusion on the peer level in one area of the constellation community.
This experience was rapidly and clearly confirmed, and the gate to
ownwas shut down completely.
Now, in the realm of human experience, people engage in all sorts of
behaviours, for their own reasons, and obviously influenced by their
holdfield. But I thought to raise it, as perhaps its a difficult thing to
discuss exclusionary behaviour within our own community, by people who
beingcertain positions, in roles of some power and influence.
I certainly felt impacted by it, and somewhat powerless in the face
givenexcluded without any possibility of discussion.
I am interested in other's reflections on this issue. I guess that
(62) . Top ^the high valance given to the topic, somewhere it will form a disowned
shadow.
Vinay
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Rest in natural great peace
this exhausted mind
beaten helplessly by
karma and neurotic thought
like the relentless fury
of the pounding waves
In the infinite ocean
of samsara.
rest in natural great peace.
- Nyoshul Khenpo Rinpoche
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Workshops | Training | Gestalt Therapy
Career Coaching | Relationship Help
Steve Vinay Gunther | *Director*
USA +1 323 391 9810 | Australia +61(2) 8064 7431
w www.depth.net.au <http://depth.net.au> | e spirited@xxxxxxxxxxxx
<https://www.facebook.com/stevevinaygunther>
<https://www.facebook.com/stevevinaygunther>
--
I
Barbara Morgan
Family Constellations Trainer, Supervisor & Practitioner
Editor of
The Knowing Field
International Constellations Journal
www.cominghome.org.uk
www.theknowingfield.com
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the challenge of how to be inclusive to all, and at the same time still
1.2
Re: Exclusion
Tue Jan 28, 2014 2:13 pm (PST) . Posted by:
"Maria Dolenc"
Hello Everyone and thank you Barbara for your post today..
I can really relate on a personal level to what you shared Barbara and
keeping and maintaining my values and integrity. I believe that to be the
life journey for us all. The longer I am on this planet the more I
understand that I can only see through „my coloured glasses‰ and that
everyone else are wearing different glasses.
says : "Acknowledging WHAT IS"... I still often argue with „reality‰ and
My main lessons in life are about Being Ok with All... and as Hellinger
want it to be different ...and that is when I suffer.
wrote:
Being human is at times very challenging.
Thank you Vinay for opening this beautiful sharing ∑
Maria Dolenc
0425 277 279
mariadolenc@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
www.mariadolenc.com.au
On 29 Jan 2014, at 1:46 am, Barbara Morgan <theknowingfield@xxxxxxxxx>
with
Interesting topic you raise Steven and one I am consistently involved
thein my role as Editor of The Knowing Field.Building on my values for the
journal of a basically inclusive publication, I often find myself in
setsposition of wanting to include vigorously opposing points of view or
beof values and that is a precarious and sometimes dangerous position to
editingin. I experienced recently stepping into such a field and unconsciously
getting caught up in the field on more than one occasion during the
differentprocess. Fascinating.
Whatever the wider, more spiritual aspects of inclusion and exclusion I
think on a personal level, the issue runs very deep and I think
thecultures manage this in different ways. Here in the UK (and do I have
Southernright to include Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland - or even
about orIreland in my generalised viewpoint?), I think we are masters (and
mistresses) at excluding anyone or anything we feel uncomfortable
feelings iswith. Cutting off from family members, work colleagues, friends, rather
than dealing with, or facing the hurt of, difficult and painful
exclusionmore the norm than the exception I suspect. And of course, I am not
exception here. I do my best to include but there are times when I too
exclude for whatever reason and I feel and have felt the pain of
ofon more than one occasion.
My paternal grandfather was an excluded person. I never met him. None
lives.his five children had any contact with him for all of their adult
violentThe story, which I don't doubt was largely true, was that he was
which mayand yet, through the constellation work, I have seen wider issues
thishave strongly impacted his way of being. Building on what Katja says,
over 50man died within six weeks of my grandmother whom he hadn't seen for
rememberyears. The excluded cannot really ever be fully excluded I can't
wrote:who said it, maybe Bert, but I like the saying:
"Those whom we reject we imitate."
I look forward to ongoing discussion of this scintillating topic.
Warm wishes to all
Barbara
On 23 January 2014 07:01, Steve Vinay Gunther <spirited@xxxxxxxxxxxx>
be a
I am writing about a topic that's a little difficult.
In the constellation ethos, exclusion is understood, generally, to
communitysource of entanglements.
One of the things I have really valued about the constellation
manyitself is the degree of inclusiveness that is widely exhibited. So
to bedifferent facilitators, with their different styles, yet there seems
inclusiveness isa general ability to get along. This open, field-oriented
apartsomething I find a bit special, and sets the constellation community
community.in my experience.
However, recently I was dismayed to find an unmistakable example of
exclusion on the peer level in one area of the constellation
dialogueThis experience was rapidly and clearly confirmed, and the gate to
ownwas shut down completely.
Now, in the realm of human experience, people engage in all sorts of
behaviours, for their own reasons, and obviously influenced by their
who holdfield. But I thought to raise it, as perhaps its a difficult thing to
discuss exclusionary behaviour within our own community, by people
beingcertain positions, in roles of some power and influence.
I certainly felt impacted by it, and somewhat powerless in the face
givenexcluded without any possibility of discussion.
I am interested in other's reflections on this issue. I guess that
disownedthe high valance given to the topic, somewhere it will form a
(62) . Top ^shadow.
Vinay
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Rest in natural great peace
this exhausted mind
beaten helplessly by
karma and neurotic thought
like the relentless fury
of the pounding waves
In the infinite ocean
of samsara.
rest in natural great peace.
- Nyoshul Khenpo Rinpoche
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Workshops | Training | Gestalt Therapy
Career Coaching | Relationship Help
Steve Vinay Gunther | *Director*
USA +1 323 391 9810 | Australia +61(2) 8064 7431
w www.depth.net.au <http://depth.net.au> | e spirited@xxxxxxxxxxxx
<https://www.facebook.com/stevevinaygunther>
<https://www.facebook.com/stevevinaygunther>
--
I
Barbara Morgan
Family Constellations Trainer, Supervisor & Practitioner
Editor of
The Knowing Field
International Constellations Journal
www.cominghome.org.uk
www.theknowingfield.com
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Maria Dolenc
0425 277 279
mariadolenc@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
www.mariadolenc.com.au
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opportunity to share ideas and perspectives. When we give representatives
2.1
Re: suffering from representatives
Tue Jan 28, 2014 1:20 pm (PST) . Posted by:
"Chuck Cogliandro" mkdrum1
I have great respect for this group and really appreciate the
guidance we tell them some simple things: that's there's nothing for them
to do or think about, but be open, relax and breathe; that they may feel
nothing, which is fine; and we lead them in some silent statements to
themselves that they are not [their name], that they are [the person they
are representing], and that they are in service to the healing of the
client and the client's family. As facilitators we hold that as the highest
intention for the constellation- that everyone is serving the client and
the healing of that particular family system.
energies, they will be less available to be open to the sensations,
If a representative begins to feel too much of their own unresolved
impressions and most importantly the energies of the family member. It
takes a real practice of multi-dimensional awareness to hold the energies
of who you're representing, not lose your self in the representation, and
remember that you're serving the needs of the client and the process of the
constellation. I've had representatives be so overwhelmed by their own
family memories that they could not report on the state of the person they
were representing, but spoke about their own mother, for example. At this
point I have no hesitation to respectfully replace them with another
participant.
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Chuck Cogliandro
Family Constellations Facilitator
Brennan Healing Science Practitioner
Kumandi Drums & Healing
404-577-6842 voice mail
www.kumandi.com
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2.2
Re: suffering from representatives
Wed Jan 29, 2014 1:16 am (PST) . Posted by:
"Robert Grant"
" If a representative begins to feel too much of their own unresolved
energies,"
Dear Chuck and All,
Thank you for being open to discuss this significant aspect of the
'classic" constellation approach. You are highlighting the very challenge
that besets many constellations.
"I've had representatives be so overwhelmed by their own family memories
that they could not report on the state of the person they were
representing, but spoke about their own mother, for example. At this
I have no hesitation to respectfully replace them with anotherparticipant."
triggered
You see at that point the representative whose energies has been
is essentially dismissed. The constellation does not turn its focus wherefield
the energy is manifesting but follows a somewhat rigid, predetermined,
doctrinal course.
This rigidity bothers me. We may say that we respectfully replace the
representative, but is this truly respectful? More importantly is this
really helpful to the field? At this point are we not treating the
representative as a second class participant, reinforcing some old
paradigm? Are we not second guessing the outcome and disallowing the
to unfold?representatives
Best wishes to all,
Robert
On Tue, Jan 28, 2014 at 10:15 PM, Chuck Cogliandro <chuck@xxxxxxxxxxx
wrote:
I have great respect for this group and really appreciate the
opportunity to share ideas and perspectives. When we give
themguidance we tell them some simple things: that's there's nothing for
feelto do or think about, but be open, relax and breathe; that they may
theynothing, which is fine; and we lead them in some silent statements to
themselves that they are not [their name], that they are [the person
theare representing], and that they are in service to the healing of the
client and the client's family. As facilitators we hold that as
the highest intention for the constellation- that everyone is serving
energiesclient and the healing of that particular family system.
If a representative begins to feel too much of their own unresolved
energies, they will be less available to be open to the sensations,
impressions and most importantly the energies of the family member. It
takes a real practice of multi-dimensional awareness to hold the
andof who you're representing, not lose your self in the representation,
of theremember that you're serving the needs of the client and the process
theyconstellation. I've had representatives be so overwhelmed by their own
family memories that they could not report on the state of the person
thiswere representing, but spoke about their own mother, for example. At
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another participant.
Chuck Cogliandro
Family Constellations Facilitator
Brennan Healing Science Practitioner
Kumandi Drums & Healing
404-577-6842 voice mail
www.kumandi.com
choosing the proto agonist, the greatest sufferer is key to the process.
2.3
Re: suffering from representatives
Wed Jan 29, 2014 2:58 am (PST) . Posted by:
"Joe pirone"
Moreno would say that there are multiple fields that emerge and that
One of the limitations of the classic hellinger work
is that the followers can not see the intensity of the fields colors andas such a less warmed up protagonist is chosen. To remedy this I would
suggest classic psychodramatic warm up techniques prior to the work of
hellinger. He did not need to do what most of us need to do as facilitators.
This might be an interesting new thread.Joseph pirone drjmpirone@xxxxxxenergies,"
On Jan 29, 2014, at 4:16 AM, Robert Grant <erebees@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:
" If a representative begins to feel too much of their own unresolved
'classic" constellation approach. You are highlighting the very challenge
Dear Chuck and All,
Thank you for being open to discuss this significant aspect of the
that besets many constellations.
memories that they could not report on the state of the person they were
"I've had representatives be so overwhelmed by their own family
representing, but spoke about their own mother, for example. At this point
I have no hesitation to respectfully replace them with another participant."
triggered is essentially dismissed. The constellation does not turn its
You see at that point the representative whose energies has been
focus where the energy is manifesting but follows a somewhat rigid,
predetermined, doctrinal course.
representative, but is this truly respectful? More importantly is this
This rigidity bothers me. We may say that we respectfully replace the
really helpful to the field? At this point are we not treating the
representative as a second class participant, reinforcing some old
paradigm? Are we not second guessing the outcome and disallowing the field
to unfold?
wrote:
Best wishes to all,
Robert
On Tue, Jan 28, 2014 at 10:15 PM, Chuck Cogliandro <chuck@xxxxxxxxxxx>
opportunity to share ideas and perspectives. When we give representatives
I have great respect for this group and really appreciate the
guidance we tell them some simple things: that's there's nothing for them
to do or think about, but be open, relax and breathe; that they may feel
nothing, which is fine; and we lead them in some silent statements to
themselves that they are not [their name], that they are [the person they
are representing], and that they are in service to the healing of the
client and the client's family. As facilitators we hold that as the highest
intention for the constellation- that everyone is serving the client and
the healing of that particular family system.
energies, they will be less available to be open to the sensations,
If a representative begins to feel too much of their own unresolved
impressions and most importantly the energies of the family member. It
takes a real practice of multi-dimensional awareness to hold the energies
of who you're representing, not lose your self in the representation, and
remember that you're serving the needs of the client and the process of the
constellation. I've had representatives be so overwhelmed by their own
family memories that they could not report on the state of the person they
were representing, but spoke about their own mother, for example. At this
point I have no hesitation to respectfully replace them with another
participant.
(36) . Top ^
Chuck Cogliandro
Family Constellations Facilitator
Brennan Healing Science Practitioner
Kumandi Drums & Healing
404-577-6842 voice mail
www.kumandi.com
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living in
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Re: Digest Number 2409 Suffering from Representatives
Tue Jan 28, 2014 11:23 pm (PST) . Posted by:
"gary stuart" garystuart
Great thread∑
There really is no OTHER∑
I think that we all share one soul and are willing to support others in
need∑ what amazes me the most in ANY constellation is that more than ∏ of
the Rep‚s represent the Dead who come through as IF they are still
Real Time and Space with their granddaughter or grandsons who may beago
working. It blows me away to this day. AND this is how I knew 17 years
I wanted to be a Constellation facilitator∑ Heaven and Earth are bridgedhave
very Shamanically for these precious moments in the Eternal Timeline of
LIFE! One thing I feel is imperative is that the REP‚s for the Dead get
healing and resolution so the Positive Life force minus the negative
entanglement can be restored. I work as much for the Ancestor Reps as the
Client when they heal it‚s a back to the Future moment for the Client and
the Weight has transformed. Sometimes I feel Constellation Biz should
a shingle of Masochists „R‰ US! My attendee‚s have been rep‚ing weeklyfor
3-8 years EVERY Sat. Night in LA∑ They have Grown and learned so much ANDfrom
feel we are healing Humanity∑ 1 family at a time∑.
So it‚s a Win-Win for ALL. The living , the dead and of course the client
and for me my heart and compassion and wisdom grow greater and stronger
being allowed by the field to put it ALL into context with wisdom andLOVE∑.
I
Many, Many attendee‚s feel they were supposed to be present even if NOT
being a Rep AND they feel changed and actively engaged in the sidelines∑
see a LARGER self-organizing presence that pick the theme, people andissues
that are brought weekly∑ I‚m in service to it all with great love andhttp://groups.yahoo.com/;_ylc=X3oDMTJkbTg4ODhkBF9TAzk3MzU5NzE1BGdycElkAzkwM
appreciation for the richness transformation of suffering brings∑..
Namaste Gary Stuart LA, CA Gary@xxxxxxxxxxxx updated website coming soon
www.chifield.com
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Digest #2409
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Re: suffering from representatives by "Zaquie Meredith"
1b
Re: suffering from representatives by "sheila saunders" pazwthn
1c
Re: suffering from representatives by "Heiki Eesmaa" heiki_e
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Re: suffering from representatives by "Rosalba Stocco"
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Re: suffering from representatives by "Dan Booth Cohen, PhD" bunnywhoo
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Re: suffering from representatives by "Katia del Rivero Vargas"
1h
Re: suffering from representatives by "Janice Crawford"
1i
Re: suffering from representatives by "Heiki Eesmaa" heiki_e
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Re: suffering from representatives by "Chris Walsh" constellationflow
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Re: Film Recommendation by "CK Lee"
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Sat Jan 25, 2014 5:17 am (PST) . Posted by:
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growth."Zaquie Meredith"
Obviously, the representatives get more than anybody else when they
represent.
This makes them open their field to experience situations and things that
they never did before.
It is just magic. They get so much. It is not a sacrifice. It is a
Sensações
Zaquie C Meredith, São Paulo, Brazil
Socióloga, Consteladora e Psicoterapeuta
http://www.zaquie.com/
Autora dos Livros: "O Que Você Precisa Saber” / “A Consciência das
e Constelações” / “É a Fé que sustenta o Pássaro”the
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From: Chris Walsh <chris@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
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Date: Sat, 25 Jan 2014 19:36:30 +0800
To: <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Subject: Re: [ConstellationTalk] suffering from representatives
Hi Maria
I would tell him to go around asking the people who represented during
break.goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx>
Cheers
Chris Walsh
Melbourne, Australia
ph +61 (0)3 9487 4647
www.cwalsh.com.au <http://www.cwalsh.com.au>
On Sat, Jan 25, 2014 at 6:47 PM, Maria Goossens <
wrote:pain
constellation
Hi,
One of my patients looked from the outside of the circle to a
and wondered why representatives offer themselves to go through the
ofrepeats
another patient. I couldn't give a right answer. Six days later he
?subject=Re%3A%20suffering%20from%20representativesthis same question. Again, I wasn't able to answer correctly.
Has anyone an answer on this question ?
Thanks,
Mieke
Maria Goossens, MD
www.dokter-goossens.be <http://www.dokter-goossens.be>
goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx
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Sat Jan 25, 2014 6:38 am (PST) . Posted by:
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entatives> "sheila saunders" pazwthnpatterns
My experience as a rep has brought me tremendous insight into the
that run in my family and also have given me tremendous empathy towardsthe
experiences that others share, both in my work as a therapist and also inis a
life in general. The incredible process of engaging in the thoughts and
feelings of someone whose actual experience I never had in my own life,
remarkable way of walking in another's shoes. I feel as though I canstood
understand so many more events than I have experienced myself, having
in the place of those who went through them. Of all ages, of bothgenders,
several races, as well as more inanimate things.other.
Also, the process of watching 2 tracts run in my mind and body quite
fascinates me, as I learn to leave one tract and pay attention to the
?subject=Re%3A%20suffering%20from%20repres
If I could be a professional representative, I'd do it!!
thanks, sheila
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On Jan 25, 2014, at 5:47, "Maria Goossens" <goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx>wrote:
constellation and wondered why representatives offer themselves to go
Hi,
One of my patients looked from the outside of the circle to a
through the pain of another patient. I couldn't give a right answer. Six
days later he repeats this same question. Again, I wasn't able to answer
correctly.
Has anyone an answer on this question ?
Thanks,
Mieke
Maria Goossens, MD
www.dokter-goossens.be
goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx
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Sat Jan 25, 2014 6:39 am (PST) . Posted by:
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tives> "Heiki Eesmaa" heiki_ethats
Being a representative is a very interesting experience, the pain and
emotion lived through is temporary (well, it might take time to stabilize
or work through some of your own material that gets restimulated, but
another story).Six
The question in that sense is much like why would people watch a horror
movie or a love story instead of living it through.
all the best
Heiki
On Sat, Jan 25, 2014 at 12:47 PM, Maria Goossens
<goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx>wrote:
Hi,
One of my patients looked from the outside of the circle to a
constellation and wondered why representatives offer themselves to go
through the pain of another patient. I couldn't give a right answer.
answerdays later he repeats this same question. Again, I wasn't able to
?subject=Re%3A%20suffering%20from%20representacorrectly.
Has anyone an answer on this question ?
Thanks,
Mieke
Maria Goossens, MD
www.dokter-goossens.be
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Sat Jan 25, 2014 9:34 am (PST) . Posted by:
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suffering%20from%20representatives> "Zaquie Meredith"growth.
Obviously, the representatives get more than anybody else when they
represent.
This makes them open their field to experience situations and things that
they never did before.
It is just magic. They get so much. It is not a sacrifice. It is a
the
Zaquie C Meredith, São Paulo, Brazil
From: Chris Walsh <chris@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Reply-To: <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Date: Sat, 25 Jan 2014 19:36:30 +0800
To: <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Subject: Re: [ConstellationTalk] suffering from representatives
Hi Maria
I would tell him to go around asking the people who represented during
break.goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx>
Cheers
Chris Walsh
Melbourne, Australia
ph +61 (0)3 9487 4647
www.cwalsh.com.au <http://www.cwalsh.com.au>
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wrote:pain
constellation
Hi,
One of my patients looked from the outside of the circle to a
and wondered why representatives offer themselves to go through the
ofrepeats
another patient. I couldn't give a right answer. Six days later he
?subject=Re%3A%20FW%3A%20%5BConstellationTalk%5D%20this same question. Again, I wasn't able to answer correctly.
Has anyone an answer on this question ?
Thanks,
Mieke
Maria Goossens, MD
www.dokter-goossens.be <http://www.dokter-goossens.be>
goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx
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Sat Jan 25, 2014 9:54 am (PST) . Posted by:
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s> "Rosalba Stocco" rstocco@xxxxxxxxxxlonger an
I receive the greatest insights when representing because it is no
intellectual exercise. The learning is embodied. Representing is abeautiful
gift. Representing allows for reciprocity, my body may be of service toemotional
another family field, and yet as I gain insight at the physical,
and spiritual level, so too my family field.that
Rosalba
http://podroom.a2zen.fm/media?q=ancestral+roots
http://guelphfamilyconstellations.com/
Rosalba Stocco, MSW, RSW,
SE Practitioner
rstocco@xxxxxx
34 Neeve Street
Guelph, ON
N1H 4C1
519 827 0528
On Jan 25, 2014, at 12:29 PM, Zaquie Meredith <zaquie@xxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Obviously, the representatives get more than anybody else when they
represent.
This makes them open their field to experience situations and things
growth.they never did before.
It is just magic. They get so much. It is not a sacrifice. It is a
the
Zaquie C Meredith, São Paulo, Brazil
From: Chris Walsh <chris@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Reply-To: <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Date: Sat, 25 Jan 2014 19:36:30 +0800
To: <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Subject: Re: [ConstellationTalk] suffering from representatives
Hi Maria
I would tell him to go around asking the people who represented during
painbreak.<goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx>
Cheers
Chris Walsh
Melbourne, Australia
ph +61 (0)3 9487 4647
www.cwalsh.com.au <http://www.cwalsh.com.au>
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wrote:constellation
Hi,
One of my patients looked from the outside of the circle to a
and wondered why representatives offer themselves to go through the
of?subject=Re%3A%20suffering%20from%20representative
repeatsanother patient. I couldn't give a right answer. Six days later he
this same question. Again, I wasn't able to answer correctly.
Has anyone an answer on this question ?
Thanks,
Mieke
Maria Goossens, MD
www.dokter-goossens.be <http://www.dokter-goossens.be>
goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx
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Sat Jan 25, 2014 10:04 am (PST) . Posted by:
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atives> "Dan Booth Cohen, PhD" bunnywhooreceived,
Dear Meike -
In my experience, very few people are willing to offer themselves to go
through the pain of another person. I agree with the responses you
especially Sheila's and Zaquie's. That is why I am always willing torepresent a
represent. However, for most people, it is not something they want to do.
For me, a good day is when I can stand as a women's sexually abusive
grandfather, then as another women's kidney disease, and finally
man whose children won't speak to him. It heals and enriches me. .And,it's
not to everyone's taste.in
When I was in Norway this fall, I worked with a group of older men with
prostate cancer. The concept of standing in representation and allowing
another man's hidden family soul to fill their awareness was entirely
foreign to them. They found the suggestion inappropriate and distasteful.
Who is this crazy doctor from America and what he is asking us to do?
The answer I have found is that very few people want to offer themselves
this way. This is why I prefer to do personal Constellations in a 2-wayor
3-way format. When I work with groups, my preference is that those whoconstellation
attend are coming for a group experience built on ceremony and conceptual
Constellations.
Dan
From: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
[mailto:ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of Maria Goossens
Sent: Saturday, January 25, 2014 5:47 AM
To: constellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [ConstellationTalk] suffering from representatives
Hi,
One of my patients looked from the outside of the circle to a
and wondered why representatives offer themselves to go through the painof
another patient. I couldn't give a right answer. Six days later herepeats
this same question. Again, I wasn't able to answer correctly.?subject=Re%3A%20suffering%20from%20represent
Has anyone an answer on this question ?
Thanks,
Mieke
Maria Goossens, MD
www.dokter-goossens.be
goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx
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Sat Jan 25, 2014 12:25 pm (PST) . Posted by:
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ntatives> "Katia del Rivero Vargas"why
I feel identified with the question of your client. In fact I don't know
the people do this.not
In the better option I only could share why I do.
1. Because I learned to love what for me was so hard to love
representing this elements (in my case people who killed, abandon, abuse,
etc.)
2. Because some of the deeply insights in my life I found during I
represented others and theirs histories.
3. Because I felt the pain and I could felt the healing.
4. Because I learned that all of us are connected and are the same, no
better no worst.
5. And I could go on for hours... this are only some, could be the
main.
And I'll go more... why your client ask this? What could happen in you
answer and only explore with she/he, her/his own answers?skype:
¿For what you believe that this happen?
Imagine that you do that.. What is your idea because this happen?
¿Why you (if she/he offer her/himself as representative) do that?
Hope serve to you. Could be a different approach.
Katia del Rivero Vargas
Visión Sistémica
Directora General
Oficina (52 55) 5544 8799 ˆ 5243 0263 / Celular (044 55) 5454 5438
<mailto:kdelrivero@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> katia@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx /
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plazos establecidos en el Reglamento de la Ley Federal de Protección de
Datos en Posesión de los Particulares o limitar el uso o divulgación de
datos, indicando mediante correo electrónico que desea dejar de recibirconstellation
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De: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
[mailto:ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx] En nombre de Maria Goossens
Enviado el: sábado, 25 de enero de 2014 04:47 a.m.
Para: constellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Asunto: [ConstellationTalk] suffering from representatives
Hi,
One of my patients looked from the outside of the circle to a
and wondered why representatives offer themselves to go through the painof
another patient. I couldn't give a right answer. Six days later herepeats
this same question. Again, I wasn't able to answer correctly.?subject=Re%3A%20suffering%20from%20represe
Has anyone an answer on this question ?
Thanks,
Mieke
Maria Goossens, MD
<http://www.dokter-goossens.be> www.dokter-goossens.be
<mailto:goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx> goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx
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Sat Jan 25, 2014 12:49 pm (PST) . Posted by:
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atives> "Janice Crawford"one
I particularly liked Chris's suggestion. And in terms of anything
additional, it of course so much depends on what one sensed as a possible
form of defense against natural movements of love and service within this
person. For example, I wonder whether this client is someone with whom
might go a bit scientific/logical? Perhaps speaking generally to those inthat
the group who might be having difficulty with understanding
representing (vs. focused on him) about empathy to both pain and pleasure
being a naturally occurring quality in infants - motor neurons, etc.,-
is too often injured by adulthood in many of us. One might then gentlydiscomfort
question whether it would it be worth it to feel some temporary
as a representative if it also helps us more pleasurably feel our own andto
others joy?
All the best from my igloo in New York City,
Jan Crawford
On Sat, Jan 25, 2014 at 1:04 PM, Dan Booth Cohen, PhD <
danboothcohen@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:
willing
Dear Meike ˆ
In my experience, very few people are willing to offer themselves to go
through the pain of another person. I agree with the responses you
received, especially Sheila‚s and Zaquie‚s. That is why I am always
to represent. However, for most people, it is not something they want
abusivedo. For me, a good day is when I can stand as a women‚s sexually
representgrandfather, then as another women‚s kidney disease, and finally
∑And,a man whose children won‚t speak to him. It heals and enriches me.
distasteful.it‚s not to everyone‚s taste.
When I was in Norway this fall, I worked with a group of older men with
prostate cancer. The concept of standing in representation and allowing
another man‚s hidden family soul to fill their awareness was entirely
foreign to them. They found the suggestion inappropriate and
themselvesWho is this crazy doctor from America and what he is asking us to do?
The answer I have found is that very few people want to offer
2-wayin this way. This is why I prefer to do personal Constellations in a
whoor 3-way format. When I work with groups, my preference is that those
conceptualattend are coming for a group experience built on ceremony and
SixConstellations.
Dan
*From:* ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx [mailto:
ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx] *On Behalf Of *Maria Goossens
*Sent:* Saturday, January 25, 2014 5:47 AM
*To:* constellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
*Subject:* [ConstellationTalk] suffering from representatives
Hi,
One of my patients looked from the outside of the circle to a
constellation and wondered why representatives offer themselves to go
through the pain of another patient. I couldn't give a right answer.
answerdays later he repeats this same question. Again, I wasn't able to
?subject=Re%3A%20suffering%20from%20representcorrectly.
Has anyone an answer on this question ?
Thanks,
Mieke
Maria Goossens, MD
www.dokter-goossens.be
goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx
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Sat Jan 25, 2014 11:46 pm (PST) . Posted by:
<mailto:heiki.eesmaa@xxxxxxxxx
tives> "Heiki Eesmaa" heiki_etraining
Very interesting thread! I didn't even realize so many people had some
adversity towards representing, somehow it hasn't ever been a problem.
Even contrary to adversity, much of the times even people without
in energy work experience strong vital energy movements. Movements of thepossible
Soul can be quite similar to Spontaneous Movement Qigong.
all the best
Heiki
On Sat, Jan 25, 2014 at 10:48 PM, Janice Crawford
<jcrawford4000@xxxxxxxxx>wrote:
I particularly liked Chris's suggestion. And in terms of anything
additional, it of course so much depends on what one sensed as a
thisform of defense against natural movements of love and service within
oneperson. For example, I wonder whether this client is someone with whom
inmight go a bit scientific/logical? Perhaps speaking generally to those
pleasurethe group who might be having difficulty with understanding
representing (vs. focused on him) about empathy to both pain and
discomfortbeing a naturally occurring quality in infants - motor neurons, etc.,-that
is too often injured by adulthood in many of us. One might then gently
question whether it would it be worth it to feel some temporary
andas a representative if it also helps us more pleasurably feel our own
goothers joy?
All the best from my igloo in New York City,
Jan Crawford
On Sat, Jan 25, 2014 at 1:04 PM, Dan Booth Cohen, PhD <
danboothcohen@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Dear Meike ˆ
In my experience, very few people are willing to offer themselves to
towillingthrough the pain of another person. I agree with the responses you
received, especially Sheila‚s and Zaquie‚s. That is why I am always
to represent. However, for most people, it is not something they want
abusivedo. For me, a good day is when I can stand as a women‚s sexually
∑And,representgrandfather, then as another women‚s kidney disease, and finally
a man whose children won‚t speak to him. It heals and enriches me.
withit‚s not to everyone‚s taste.
When I was in Norway this fall, I worked with a group of older men
allowingprostate cancer. The concept of standing in representation and
distasteful.another man‚s hidden family soul to fill their awareness was entirely
foreign to them. They found the suggestion inappropriate and
themselvesWho is this crazy doctor from America and what he is asking us to do?
The answer I have found is that very few people want to offer
who2-wayin this way. This is why I prefer to do personal Constellations in a
or 3-way format. When I work with groups, my preference is that those
conceptualattend are coming for a group experience built on ceremony and
SixConstellations.
Dan
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*Subject:* [ConstellationTalk] suffering from representatives
Hi,
One of my patients looked from the outside of the circle to a
constellation and wondered why representatives offer themselves to go
through the pain of another patient. I couldn't give a right answer.
answerdays later he repeats this same question. Again, I wasn't able to
?subject=Re%3A%20suffering%20from%20representacorrectly.
Has anyone an answer on this question ?
Thanks,
Mieke
Maria Goossens, MD
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Sun Jan 26, 2014 4:30 am (PST) . Posted by:
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es> "Chris Walsh" constellationflowsome
I agree Heike,
In my workshops & all the workshops and trainings I have attended, the
majority of people are actually keen to represent. While I believe the
reluctance and fear does exist, I also think it has been overstated in
of the posts over the last few daystraining
Cheers
Chris Walsh
Melbourne, Australia
ph +61 (0)3 9487 4647
www.cwalsh.com.au
On Sun, Jan 26, 2014 at 6:46 PM, Heiki Eesmaa <heiki.eesmaa@xxxxxxxxx
wrote:
Very interesting thread! I didn't even realize so many people had some
adversity towards representing, somehow it hasn't ever been a problem.
Even contrary to adversity, much of the times even people without
thein energy work experience strong vital energy movements. Movements of
jcrawford4000@xxxxxxxxxSoul can be quite similar to Spontaneous Movement Qigong.
all the best
Heiki
On Sat, Jan 25, 2014 at 10:48 PM, Janice Crawford <
<mailto:jcrawford4000@xxxxxxxxx%0b>possible
wrote:
I particularly liked Chris's suggestion. And in terms of anything
additional, it of course so much depends on what one sensed as a
thisform of defense against natural movements of love and service within
those inoneperson. For example, I wonder whether this client is someone with whom
might go a bit scientific/logical? Perhaps speaking generally to
pleasurethe group who might be having difficulty with understanding
representing (vs. focused on him) about empathy to both pain and
andthatbeing a naturally occurring quality in infants - motor neurons, etc.,-
discomfortis too often injured by adulthood in many of us. One might then gently
question whether it would it be worth it to feel some temporary
as a representative if it also helps us more pleasurably feel our own
goothers joy?
All the best from my igloo in New York City,
Jan Crawford
On Sat, Jan 25, 2014 at 1:04 PM, Dan Booth Cohen, PhD <
danboothcohen@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Dear Meike ˆ
In my experience, very few people are willing to offer themselves to
want towillingthrough the pain of another person. I agree with the responses you
received, especially Sheila‚s and Zaquie‚s. That is why I am always
to represent. However, for most people, it is not something they
abusivedo. For me, a good day is when I can stand as a women‚s sexually
∑And,representgrandfather, then as another women‚s kidney disease, and finally
a man whose children won‚t speak to him. It heals and enriches me.
withit‚s not to everyone‚s taste.
When I was in Norway this fall, I worked with a group of older men
allowingprostate cancer. The concept of standing in representation and
themselvesdistasteful.another man‚s hidden family soul to fill their awareness was entirely
foreign to them. They found the suggestion inappropriate and
Who is this crazy doctor from America and what he is asking us to do?
The answer I have found is that very few people want to offer
Six2-wayin this way. This is why I prefer to do personal Constellations in a
whoor 3-way format. When I work with groups, my preference is that those
conceptualattend are coming for a group experience built on ceremony and
Constellations.
Dan
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*Sent:* Saturday, January 25, 2014 5:47 AM
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*Subject:* [ConstellationTalk] suffering from representatives
Hi,
One of my patients looked from the outside of the circle to a
constellation and wondered why representatives offer themselves to go
through the pain of another patient. I couldn't give a right answer.
answerdays later he repeats this same question. Again, I wasn't able to
?subject=Re%3A%20suffering%20from%20representativcorrectly.
Has anyone an answer on this question ?
Thanks,
Mieke
Maria Goossens, MD
www.dokter-goossens.be
goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx
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Sat Jan 25, 2014 5:55 am (PST) . Posted by:
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Lee"could
Dear Liz,
Thanks for the film recommendation of Les incendies. Unfortunately I
only find the trailer to this film and not the whole film on youtube.like
I hope you can post the whole film on youtube for the benefit of those
me who cannot find this film in our country.it's
Many thanks.
Regards,CK Lee
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Date: Sat, 25 Jan 2014 07:10:13 +0000
Subject: [ConstellationTalk] Film Recommendation
Hi all,
I just want to recommend a film that I saw last night: "Les Incendies",
a Canadian film about two young middle eastern people discovering their?subject=Re%3A%20Film%20Recommendat
roots.
It is truly a film about accepting your life at the price your family has
paid for it.
I very much recommend it.
Love Liz
Liz Sleeper
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