Dear Friends,
I was wondering if the term "stuck energy" is descriptive enough of the
personal powerlessness and choicelessness manifest in suffering. Similarly
I sense a certain difficulty, pressure? with the "when we let our tears
flow freely, we are much safer". I suppose my feeling is leaning towards
the other side; - when we find ourselves safe enough our tears will flow
freely. And as an aside, can we find ourselves safe if we have anything to
lose?
Great day to all,
Robert
On Mon, Feb 3, 2014 at 1:57 AM, Hania Gorski <haniagorski@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Thanks Barbara :)
I feel inspired by your words :)
What you said means to me that pain is* the point* *of being stuck* -
where we can begin constellation. I always try to find the most painful
energy point to start constellation, like a point to push the movement from
the stuck energy. It is like something sharp, a centre of pain. And if
people suffer too long or from their systemic hidden stuff, they talk
stories but the pain is still not pointed out. Therefore finding the point
of pain is the first goal. And that's my experience (and my big learning
from Bert) that catching this point of pain is the most beneficial, however
not always possible. Even if it'd be not possible in some interviews,
seeking that point is a good direction to me. With this point caught, the
energy of the Knowing Field goes very strongly towards solution, and then I
feel my facilitation role as just a delicate assistance.
Suffering would be the movement within the person, with no solution
forward, and that would be also *a form of stuck energy movement*, a
closed circle with going back and forth, forming (or formed) entanglement.
The function of suffering will be to continuously stir up (to not forget
that there is a pain) until the stuck energy will be enough high to risk
the healing movement/healthy solution.
A constellation will be to pin the point of pain, and to bring a healing
movement to a repetitive pattern of suffering.
Warmly from hot summer in Melbourne :)
Hania Gorski, M.Psych.*, *Melbourne
ph. (+61) 400 225 357
www.wholerelationships.com
www.constellationseries.wordpress.com
*The world, I've come to think, is like the surface of a frozen lake. We
walk along, we slip, we try to keep our balance and not to fall. One day,
there's a crack, and so we learn that underneath us -- is an unimaginable
depth. *James Joyce
