Hi Lawrence,
Could it be a simple message like "I take, you give" being said from a child to
the parent? If a parent is still acting like a child they tend to repeatedly
take from their children and this is against the orders of love. Perhaps the
adolescent is in service of something that tries to return to a right order of
love.
Kind regards
Sadhana
From: "lavincisa@xxxxxxxxx" <lavincisa@xxxxxxxxx>
To: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2011 7:07 AM
Subject: [ConstellationTalk] What voice is speaking in the family?
Dear All, May I have some input from you about :
When an adolescent child takes stuff from other people that does not belong to
the child, without prior permission to make it its own.......(stealing,theft)
what is the child attempting to say,
*a* What is the underlying message, language behind the behaviour/ shadow that
the child is putting across to me, perhaps related to shame?
*b* What is the unspoken family message [knowing full well that perhaps only
listening to the Knowing Field is more 'helpful'?]
Many Thanks
Lawrence Ngorora
PhD Candidate
Land Reform and Democracy in South Africa Research Group
Faculty of Humanities
Department of Sociology
University of Cape Town
cell: 0724219329
Keep a green tree in your heart & a singing bird will come
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