--- In ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, "Franz Kalab" <franz@...> wrote:
dear Sneah Victoria and Franz,
Victoria,
Sure I am still with you when you comes to "first be a 'Mensch'" (a
human). For what else and for what more? I still feel Tomás´
handshake and others', too. Smile.
Self acceptance, loving yourself, authenticity, not caring for
success, nor fearing failure either... beyond right and wrong.
Knowing that technique is just what it is, and that even spirituality
can be self-deception. From the eye of the human hurricane...
I seem to be just one of those who did not want to become a
facilitator, but to work on own issues overdue, which I continue.
Why or what for do I offer
to facilitate a constellation for another?
constellations to groups?
training in constellations?
Kind regards,
Franz
--- In ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, Sneh Victoria
<sneh.victoria@> wrote:
[... fk]
Something more: in most of my trainings I had someone who onlytook
part for their own good, without wanting to become a facilitator-and
invariably they were at the end amongst the most accomplished.
Could it be that the most important part about how to be a
facilitator is to first be a mensch, and that if we support this
before anything else, we support this work best?
Oh my, where am I going. Well: for everybody who is still with menot
here, how about creating a training that has at it's core profound
learning about -meditation and mindfulness- about how to love
yourself so you can truly love the people who come to you- about
caring for success and not caring for failure either- about how to
reach the place where wright and wrong don't matter and so on.
This
could happen while learning about constellations, even through
constellations, and many other techniques too.
I am truly interested in knowing who has similar ideas, or
controversial ones.
I hope we can continue to inspire one another. It is already
happening to me with these last weeks' mails,
Sneh
