Hi Martin,
Could be an interesting learning experience for all if the child is
at the seminar and also if they are not - I would not recommend yes
or no for you, but to sit with it and trust that the direction which
you feel is best can work for the good of all involved.
I would also be looking at whether the family is a bit too emeshed -
- What would be wrong if the parents just decided on one day each of
seminar and one of baby sitting? Or even whether if one comes to
this seminar,the other comes to the next one?
- Is the child at risk with one of the parents?
- Are there potential benefits or fears for one or both of the
parents if they have a day where they work without the other being
there?
- Who has the fear of missing out?
- Can they develop a sense of trust around being in the right place
at the right time, and that whatever work is done can help no matter
who is present?
- What's happening that the parents would rather bring the child to
an experience that is more commonly the place of adults than allow
he/she to spend a day in child activities?
- Or is there some sort of pull that indicates that the child would
benefit from the experience?
For me it is a decision around what would contain the most benefit
for the child.
Good luck,
Gail.
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Dear all,
the parents of a 7 year old child asked me whether they could
the constellations seminar because otherwise one of them wouldhave to stay
away too. I don't see any reasons why they shouldn't, althoughI've never
had such young children in my seminars before. I thought thatmaybe when the
child is tired or wants to do something else, because it's toomuch then one
of the parents could take him out.children?
What do you think? Any experiences indicating not to take in
Thank you very much in advance!
Martin
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