Dear colleague Amina
From the impression of your mail I would first ask you if you are still
centred and free to be non-judgemental and free to hold everyone of all the
systems in your heart in the same way. Or are you in shock too, just as the
families concerned? Or in a therapeutic relationship?
Is there any help possible here, and for who and why? Or is this about
acknowledging that it is as it is, and can you and they truly say YES to
what has happened? In a shock this can be of some help, just say or think:
yes, this has really happened.
This is fate in its true form, what should any therapist try to add or take
away, and would it make anyone of one of all these families stronger or
weaker?
This seems to me like a true test for us to find out our own opinions about
life and death and about good and bad. Fate is beyond any judgement, it is
not good or bad, it is directed by the soul or the spirit but not by what we
want or think.
There is a very good interview with Bert about disasters, taken right after
the big fire in Kaprun where many people got killed. I only have it in
German, maybe someone can translate it for you.
I wish you, but most of all, all the families concerned - a lot of wisdom
and strength in facing this fate.
Margreet Mossel
www.opstellingen.com <http://www.opstellingen.com/>
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