Dear Amina,
It is best to leave things alone with this situation and in fact I would
disinvite them from the workshop- It is too raw and the trauma so near. I
rememember Bertold Ulsamer in a workshp saying that it takes on average about a
year
for most people to recover and the possibility of re- trumatization is high
during that time.
Ed Lynch
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