I’ve found that I can competently facilitate within my close family through the
process of seeing the underlying dynamics. That seems what you two are
considering, so that should be fine. Once it’s time to move toward resolutions,
I find myself generally an unreliable guide - my unconscious place in the
system becomes a pretty formidable force. I am happy to help close family
members see their situations better, but if they are looking for resolutions, I
tend to refer them to others. Good luck!
The Rev. Leslie Nipps
Convivium Constellations - Founder, Practitioner & Trainer
www.conviviumconstellations.com
Ask me about the West Coast Constellations Intensive, May 30-June 3, 2018,
www.westcoastconstellations.com
"Hasten to that which supports." - The I Ching
On Feb 14, 2018, at 11:54 AM, Jeffrey Rich jeffrey.rich@xxxxxxxxx
[ConstellationTalk] <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Dear Susana,
I don't have much experience with facilitating within my own family, but I do
have a comment from Stephan Hausner to pass along - when he was asked how he
does this, he said to a group of us that he does those constellations
completely blind so that no one knows who is representing whom (or what).
Warmly,
Jeffrey
"What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" ~Mary Oliver
"Our task is not to look for love,
but simply to track down all the obstacles that we have put in the way of
love." ~Rumi
On Wed, Feb 14, 2018 at 2:48 PM, Gertrud Yasutake gy1800@xxxxxxxxxxx
[ConstellationTalk] <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Guni Baxa gave the following set-up when she came to NYC in 2006:
1 focus (client).
2 goal
3 hindrance, obstacle
4 resources
5 hidden gain (there is a profitable side to not getting to the goal)
6 future task (what happens when the goal is reached)
All the best!
Gertrud Y
From: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> on
behalf of Susana Witte susanawitte@xxxxxxxxx [ConstellationTalk]
<ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Sent: Wednesday, February 14, 2018 12:52 PM
To: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [ConstellationTalk] Facilitation within our own family
Greetings my fellow facilitators,
My son embarked on a big project last summer and has now stumbled upon what
"feels" like an inevitable block. I suggested we could do a simple
constellation to see who the block represents within his system. He's
enthusiastic about this possibility but before we do that I want to hear from
you & your experiences facilitating within the family system.
Thank you for your time and attention, Susana Witte
