Hello,
With regard to your two cases around questioned paternity Chris, I can add my recent experience: A female client set up her family and there was no connection with the father. On a deeper enquiry, the client said that she and her parents had recently & simultaneously had their blood groups typed. According to the doctor there was definitely an anomaly. The parents avoided the client's sensitive questions & worry about this outcome and said it was a mistake on the part of the typing process. A secret? Then the client remembered that as a child, her mother had told her she had had a Russian sailor boyfriend before she married her husband. An extra representative was selected for this person and a profound movement of love and relief for the client and her biological father ensued. Everyone in the room was deeply touched by the effortless belonging to each other. After a time, she was able to bow to the father who had brought her up although her connection with the mother remained strained and suspicious. We left it at that point as the main movement was with the soul's reunion with her natural father.
On Saturday, March 1, 2003, at 08:16 PM, Chris Walsh wrote:
Hi all!
I have now facilitated 2 constellations where the "father" and the child regarded each other with mutual aloofness despite the right moves having been done before. At this point the whole constellation seemed stuck.
In one case the child could not bow. In another case the "father" could not take the child & the child was suspicious of the "father". In both constellations the client volunteered that there was significant doubt about the paternity of the child.
When an extra representative for the biological father was introduced to these constellations, they proceeded quickly to resolution. This required finding adequate acknowledgement of both "fathers". It also required appropriate resolution between the mother and these two men. Has anyone had similar experiences?
Interestingly research based on blood types and more recently on DNA testing show that, at least in the Western world paternity is other than thought in a staggering 10% of cases. Recently there was such a study in West Australia. So I am surprised that I haven't heard of this issue coming up more often in constellations. Does anyone have any thoughts?
hasta la vista
Chris Walsh
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