Dear Sneh Flower
Thank you for your playful caring way of being. It welcomes smiles for me from
very deep within.
Hope that i will get a chance to be part of your group again when you return to
Bellingham.
I have been enriched by each and everyone's unique way of facilitating whom i
have had the opportunity to be part of.
Am feeling blessed that with this work, i get really the practise to walk with
the unknowable and the prize for me each time has been to keep dissolving the
ego and to be innocent and fresh again.
In many ways this work allows me to recreate myself with consciousness which
requires tons of unlearning. It is a process and it is happening ~ ~ ~ YES!
My Gratitude to Mr. Bert Hellinger is IMMENSE. YES!
Much gratitude also for all of you for keeping this work juicy! YES!
within all this love and mystery
Anutosh
----- Original Message -----
From: Sneh Victoria
To: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sent: Tuesday, June 10, 2008 7:19 AM
Subject: Re: [ConstellationTalk] Re: Intention
Dear Dipa, Alison , Sheila, Hunter, Max and all the others,
the thing about Alison's interesting question concerning "intentions"
is still keeping me busy.
I recently observed a way I keep using- quite unconsciously till now,
to not get trapped with good intentions.
While leading a group in Prag, (Check Republic) I did something I
believe I often do, whenever I have no clue what it is that wants to
happen: I just allowed myself to stay stupid. (This was made easy
because I really did know very little about the culture and values of
the people of Check Republik). And sure enough the "clues" started
coming in.
It seems the system invariably starts giving them when I remain in
the space of not having any idea, not even the slightest one, AND
feel comfortable with it.
Feeling without a clue is not exactly like having an intention. More
like being at the end of a workshop day and too full for focusing on
anything special.
But it might have been a hidden intension. I often used this state of
mind to watch what hints will come,
-from the reps,
-the audience,
-a bee ,
-a phone call or anything else.
It works at least for me. I am curious for whom else.
Other than that I have lately experimented with a method inspired by
Bert Brecht. He liked to teach the actors to step out of their roles
and "watch" from the outside in order to stay non attached.
So, when in a constellation the picture "freezes", I sometimes use
this method and add "intent":
I let the reps step out of their role, look back at the place where
they stood from 2 steps away, have them get in touch with a quality
inside of them I like to call "soul" and suggest they "listen"for
what might come from there that could contribute to their role in a
beneficial way.
And it never fails to make a difference. The picture unfreezes and
moves forward.
Maybe it is important to add that I have not seen the clients being
bothered by the help of "foreign"souls, rather the contrary: they
were touched, very touched many times.
Could this suggest that it might not matter how in a constellation
(and in life?) we come to the healing picture, nor weather we observe
any Orders or rules in doing so, but rather that the good wishes from
present souls and ourselves, "the truly well wishing intentions",
(like prayers?) can help to turn a situation around?
And Max: the home stretch boost is inspiring, as I will try it out as
soon as the occasion arises.
Let us keep exploring, Sneh
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