Sneh and others,
Thank you for that interesting frame: " you may not be happy with what you
see and experience but know that 'your' constellation will help others
observing or participating in it to heal their system".
When I make an introduction I speak to healing occurring at five levels:
1. the client or solicitant
2. the people participating as representatives
3. the people observing...the other participants in the workshop
4. the systems of those who have expereinced a healing or an awakening
5. the facilitator
I am finding that I gain so much from each constellation. In some cases it
is at a very conscious level and in other cases I just "know" and yet can
not pinpoint it.
Thank you once again for this very worthy frame.
Fondly,
Stephen
Stephen Campbell
MA, R.Sc.P., MPNLP (Health), ND (Candidate)
Systemic Family Constellation Facilitator
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On Tue, Feb 24, 2009 at 09:20, Sneh Victoria
<sneh.victoria@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx>wrote:
Hi David and others,
for the matter of trauma: yes Davis, you were very right in saying
the client is missing. It basically is the client who decides what
and how much of it she/he wants to learn and do. And I have seen
instances where a client went further than the therapist was going
himself.
There were even times, where I explored, weather a constellation is
actually "for" the client who wishes it. I sometimes saw, that the
client was not happy with what came out, but someone else was. I am
not yet totally clear about it, but in the opening talk I include
this idea: "...that the constellation someone is asking for might
actually be not the one that will satisfy you, but will help someone
else. With each group present, a system is present. And maybe we do
things for one another as much as it can be done in any system. So,
watch, when your own constellation or part of it might be played out
in someone else's piece of work. Let us all look at the
constellations in this group as our all constellations and use them
for the understanding of our own system. Whatever work will happen
here is happening because of this group of people being present, with
me as the facilitator, at this time of the year, in this very
building, city, country, with these special trees surrounding it,
this sun shining, clouds moving by, birds peeking in, it all is part
of what is happening with us being present to watch and use it to our
benefit...I tend to believe there is no such thing as >my
constellation> but if you choose to claim the one you choose to bring
into this circle, feel free to do so."
This frame helps somewhat to have each individual in the group to be
more in the center, more involved, response-abel, and yes, David- see
each other as a resource, which again helps a lot for not getting
overwhelmed.
The role of the facilitator than would rather be to not stand in the
way of the healing movements of a whole group.
Sneh
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