Rita,
I strongly feel the children shouldn't be there. It may "not" their weight
to carry.Let me know what happens as I feel impulses through you as to what
will show up in their fields.What if sexual stuff comes up and you are
restricted because of traumatic effects on minors form "adult themed
dynamics" of incest etc.The facilitator shouldn't have to censor any truths
from the field to "save" the children present from "bigger information" than
they can handle or carry for their parents etc.Sincerest concern for the
kids..
PS an anecdote from my great Teacher Heinz Stark. A woman wanted to do a
constellation for her daughter life threatening asthma.The day she sent the
Check to Heinz for the coming weekend workshop the child's asthma
disappeared. The mother took care of what the child was carrying for her
etc.that's a quantum view of timelessness.
From: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
[mailto:ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of Rita Martino
Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2008 11:27 AM
To: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: Re: [ConstellationTalk] needing input please
Thank you Gary for your input. It is helpful. The parents asked that the
entire family have their constellation facilitated. And yes, I wondered also
if it be best to work with the parents only. Rita
Warm Regards,
Rita Ann Martino
awakeningfamilyconstellations.com
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From: Gary Stuart <Gary@xxxxxxxxxxxx <mailto:Gary%40CHIfield.com> >
To: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
<mailto:ConstellationTalk%40yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2008 1:22:59 PM
Subject: RE: [ConstellationTalk] needing input please
Hello Rita,
What wasn't clear in this message was are the kids going to be there or just
the parents? As there can/will be representatives for the children AND my
thought is IF the parents are taking care of their systemic issues together
then the children will certainly have a healing effect from their creators
working out the issues. I would just work on the parents without the
children present. If dark stuff emerges it may not be appropriate to expose
the children to "Adult stuff" and let them be little and receive the "good
stuff" that their parents will care for them be healing themselves and the
bigger system they all live in together.
Love and Support Gary Stuart LA, CA Gary@Chifield. com
From: ConstellationTalk@ yahoogroups. com
[mailto:ConstellationTalk@ yahoogroups. com] On Behalf Of rita.martino
Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2008 11:13 AM
To: ConstellationTalk@ yahoogroups. com
Subject: [ConstellationTalk] needing input please
This may be a repeat and so please forgive in advance if indeed it
shows itself twice...
Greetings from La Crosse WI.
I have been asked to facilitate a family constellation. ...a Mom,
Dad,
and three children, ages, 12, 14, 16. I have worked with the Dad a
few times, the mom once and have not met the children. Some months
ago I referred
them to a Psychiatrist in a private practice clinic that I do some
contractual work for and who is doing Wholistic
Psychiatry. They,(the family) have requested me to do a family
constellation, (with the consent of the Psychiatrist)
I have mainly focused on the one on one constellations and as an
MFT
therapist in a hospital setting, I take care with respect to
boundaries/ethics
and give my best to both "roles".
With appreciation in advance, Rita
Warm Regards,
Rita Ann Martino
awakeningfamilycons tellations. com
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