Hello Gary,
I hope you don't mind a few basic questions from a newbie as they
relate to the death of Hilary Sullivan, the facilitator from Vancouver.
I wonder if there is a certain procedure that facilitators follow in
the event that a client from their constellations would happen to die.
I went to the memorial blogsite for Hilary Sullivan
http://hilarysullivan.wordpress.com/pictures/
and there I saw your two entries, Gary, first, your very moving and
deeply heart felt poem which told everyone to focus on the idea that
she is not really gone but is still here in her loved ones' hearts.
Then I saw your second entry which I copy here so I can ask you about it.
[ I facilitated a constellation for her in North Carolina at the
Constellation Conference
.I would like to speak to her younger
daughter with health issues
Email me when the time is
right
.Gary@xxxxxxxxxxxx My deepest Sympathy GARY]
Comment by Gary Stuart May 25, 2008 # ]
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Because you facilitated a constellation for her and now she has died,
will it be necessary for you now to do a follow up constellation for
her? And if so, will that help her make a better transition in the
afterlife? As well as help her family cope better with the loss?
I am so very impressed by the strong role that the dead play in
constellation work, especially in the victim and perpetrator
constellations of ethnic and racial reconciliation, so I would guess
that the same energy dynamics would hold for the dead in personal
family constellations? Is that also why you asked to speak with her
daughter about her health issues and thus how they might be healed in
a future constellation as she deals with her mother's death?
Your courageous efforts to reconcile the effects of the death have
raised many more questions, but I think I will just ask one more and
then call it a night.
Does it make a difference in your approach to facilitating a
constellation for someone who has died, if that person died a natural
death, died by sudden accident or murder, or if she took her own life?
Thank you all so much for your patience with my questions and I
apologize if I have asked too many questions and/or too many dumb ones.
Theresa
--- In ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, "Anita Roy" <anitaroy@...>
wrote:
Canada,
One of our CT members has passed away.
*Hilary Sullivan*
She was a constellation facilitator in Vancouver, British Columbia,
and she ran a web site to let us all in Canada know about FC events:facilitated, and
http://www.familyconstellations.ca/
I was a representative in some of the constellations she
she also facilitated some of my constellations. As well, we havecarpooled
to attend constellation workshops.wishes
The family has established a blog and her husband invites anyone who
to honor Hilary, to create an entry on it.
http://www.hilarysullivan.wordpress.com There are some photos there as
well.
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Anita Roy
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