Hi all
I have just finished another constellation tour of Japan (4 cities). A great
experience, as always. Theres a few things I wanted to get other perspectives
on.
The first one, is that at times I find people who have just been
representatives, after the constellation is finished, want to mention some
things about their experience as rep. I am cautious about this, but find it
happens quite a bit. On one level, it seems a bit to me like re-opening the
constellation up. But on another level, I guess its people making sense of
their experience, and kind of debriefing. Perhaps its a sign that they are not
fully out of role, though I don't think thats exactly it. If someone uses it as
a platform to start interpreting things, I stop that. But other times, they
just want to say something about their experience. I am in two minds about this
kind of discussion in the group.
I am interested in how others deal with this.
The second thing is something that has been talked about quite a few times, on
this list, and other constellation discussions. I know people have a range of
views, and I guess I am interested in hearing a few current perspectives.
Sometimes, like today, the client wanted to pick a woman to represent a male
role - this was their brother. I prefer not to do so. But I also wonder - well,
this is something significant in the field, that they want to do this, so
perhaps I should just let them, and see what happens.
Well, I would appreciate hearing other's views on these matters.
Thanks
Vinay
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