Hi Steve.
Thanks.
in 2 situations, i feel it's more importante you flow what you feel inside
of you.
The 2 question are the same kind.
What do you feel.
What comes to you in any situation.
Flow with it.
There's is "no wrong" on it.
Keep going
2012/10/14 Steve Vinay Gunther <spirited@xxxxxxxxxxxx>
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Hi all
I have just finished another constellation tour of Japan (4 cities). A
great experience, as always. Theres a few things I wanted to get other
perspectives on.
The first one, is that at times I find people who have just been
representatives, after the constellation is finished, want to mention some
things about their experience as rep. I am cautious about this, but find it
happens quite a bit. On one level, it seems a bit to me like re-opening the
constellation up. But on another level, I guess its people making sense of
their experience, and kind of debriefing. Perhaps its a sign that they are
not fully out of role, though I don't think thats exactly it. If someone
uses it as a platform to start interpreting things, I stop that. But other
times, they just want to say something about their experience. I am in two
minds about this kind of discussion in the group.
I am interested in how others deal with this.
The second thing is something that has been talked about quite a few
times, on this list, and other constellation discussions. I know people
have a range of views, and I guess I am interested in hearing a few current
perspectives. Sometimes, like today, the client wanted to pick a woman to
represent a male role - this was their brother. I prefer not to do so. But
I also wonder - well, this is something significant in the field, that they
want to do this, so perhaps I should just let them, and see what happens.
Well, I would appreciate hearing other's views on these matters.
Thanks
Vinay
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