Dear Friends
I am still thinking about this topic of entanglement we have been discussing
lately. Thank you to Kay for starting it.
Two posts have been with me. One, by Thomas saying Constellations are basically
about life, and by Michael on Nov 22nd about Anchors and more.
I have been thinking about the energy of 'What is', which seems much about
acceptance. When there is an entanglement it often seems that what brought life
has been judged in some way, and there is an attempt to exclude it. Examples
would be life that came from war, abuse; there is obviously a long list, but it
includes things that were not allowed by the family, such as a different
religion.
However life is not so choosy. If seems to grows on what ever rock is
available, and it does not seems to matter how long is the life, Constellations
show that is less important.
Constellations provide some opportunity for the source of life to be accepted,
and it seems that the system benefits from this acceptance. The system keeps
reminding us that this source has not been honoured, and the honouring brings
strength and and orientation to the future, and therefore more life. (There is
more we could discuss here about clients who persevere with several
Constellations and what can be the deeper meaning of this.)
My sense is that the entanglement is carried by someone who will struggle to
carry it, maybe the spirit of entanglement chooses such a person.
So when we and our families make some judgement about how life came to us,
maybe we go out of our true position in the bigger system, for who are we to
judge? Life comes just as it is. Constellations then invite us to let go of
judgement, of trying to decide what life's fate was good or not, and allow the
sprit of 'what is' to heal us, where everything has its place, as is equally
important.
My best wishes
David Mathes
www.innersuccess.net.au
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