[bksvol-discuss] Re: Adult Content

  • From: Valerie Maples <vlmaples@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • Date: Sun, 11 Nov 2012 22:35:43 -0800 (PST)

FWIW, we have had no difficulty or discomfort discussing sexuality, sex, 
lifestyles anything.  Having caregivers in the home you would be stunned at the 
amount of misinformation out there and we want to be the ones teaching, not 
half 
truths and lies among mis-informed peers. Heck, both Nichole and Doug's aides 
suffer from much incorrect information on sex and look at me sideways when we 
have spoken openly about medically correct facts on things from transmission of 
STDs AIDS and more...
 Valerie


www.caringbridge.org/visit/nicholemaples




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From: Roger Loran Bailey <rogerbailey81@xxxxxxx>
To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sent: Sun, November 11, 2012 9:23:02 PM
Subject: [bksvol-discuss] Re: Adult Content

I am glad that your mother is progressive enough to discuss it with     you. I 
really have a hard time understanding why it is so difficult     for parents to 
talk to their children about sex. Honestly, if they     ask why we sneeze does 
that cause any awkwardness? It's just another     topic that we all need to 
learn about and we will all learn about it     whether parents like it or not.

On 11/11/2012 9:04 PM, Dasha Radford       wrote:

Not that it's necessarily the correct thing to do but mama         and I have 
often read books together especially if there was         some questionable 
content and then we would discuss it but         that's how we do things. My 
family has always loved books. My         uncle is a writer and reads all the 
time my aunt reads a lot and         my cousins right and read as well 
particularly the girls in         California.
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>On Nov 11, 2012, at 4:26 PM, "Dornetta" <dornetta@xxxxxxxxx>         wrote:
>
>
>Roger; 
>>I was "upset" because of the content in the book was, in             my 
>>opinion, 
>>way too much for her 9-year old self especially             since I was 
>>dreading 
>>that "talk." I don't want my children             to learn the woes of sex 
>>from 
>>a book and that particular             book was giving instructions on not 
>>only 
>>positions but also             oral sex...techniques and the like. So, my 
>>"beating myself             upside the head" was warranted, in my opinion.  I 
>>will say             that she did admit that she picked up the  book based on 
>>the             other novel from Zane that she read (the one my older         
>>    
>>daughter said that it was OK for her to read.) That title,             and I 
>>forget which one, wasn't that graphic or as detailed             as the 
>>G-Spot.  
>>I see that Bookshare has that book in the             collection (and it was 
>>an 
>>earlier download for me) and while             I haven't checked to see 
>>whether 
>>or not it is under adult             content, I am sure that it is the 
>>"watered-down version than             the first printed version I read when 
>>I 
>>had sight. 
>>
>>I will admit that she didn't understand the total or             worldly 
>>complexity of the content; her reading and             comprehension skills 
>>are 
>>more advanced than the average 9             year old that it scared the 
>>Hades 
>>out of me. Fortunately for             me during that time, I was able to 
>>field 
>>question from the             mind of a 9-year old and not the questions that 
>>would have             derived from a mind of a child that was turned-upside 
>>down             or inside out from reading such a book. 
>>
>>Netta 
>>"Just because you are blind does not mean you lack             vision"-Stevie 
>>Wonder 
>>

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