FWIW, we have had no difficulty or discomfort discussing sexuality, sex, lifestyles anything. Having caregivers in the home you would be stunned at the amount of misinformation out there and we want to be the ones teaching, not half truths and lies among mis-informed peers. Heck, both Nichole and Doug's aides suffer from much incorrect information on sex and look at me sideways when we have spoken openly about medically correct facts on things from transmission of STDs AIDS and more... Valerie www.caringbridge.org/visit/nicholemaples ________________________________ From: Roger Loran Bailey <rogerbailey81@xxxxxxx> To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: Sun, November 11, 2012 9:23:02 PM Subject: [bksvol-discuss] Re: Adult Content I am glad that your mother is progressive enough to discuss it with you. I really have a hard time understanding why it is so difficult for parents to talk to their children about sex. Honestly, if they ask why we sneeze does that cause any awkwardness? It's just another topic that we all need to learn about and we will all learn about it whether parents like it or not. On 11/11/2012 9:04 PM, Dasha Radford wrote: Not that it's necessarily the correct thing to do but mama and I have often read books together especially if there was some questionable content and then we would discuss it but that's how we do things. My family has always loved books. My uncle is a writer and reads all the time my aunt reads a lot and my cousins right and read as well particularly the girls in California. > >Sent from my iPhone > >On Nov 11, 2012, at 4:26 PM, "Dornetta" <dornetta@xxxxxxxxx> wrote: > > >Roger; >>I was "upset" because of the content in the book was, in my >>opinion, >>way too much for her 9-year old self especially since I was >>dreading >>that "talk." I don't want my children to learn the woes of sex >>from >>a book and that particular book was giving instructions on not >>only >>positions but also oral sex...techniques and the like. So, my >>"beating myself upside the head" was warranted, in my opinion. I >>will say that she did admit that she picked up the book based on >>the other novel from Zane that she read (the one my older >> >>daughter said that it was OK for her to read.) That title, and I >>forget which one, wasn't that graphic or as detailed as the >>G-Spot. >>I see that Bookshare has that book in the collection (and it was >>an >>earlier download for me) and while I haven't checked to see >>whether >>or not it is under adult content, I am sure that it is the >>"watered-down version than the first printed version I read when >>I >>had sight. >> >>I will admit that she didn't understand the total or worldly >>complexity of the content; her reading and comprehension skills >>are >>more advanced than the average 9 year old that it scared the >>Hades >>out of me. Fortunately for me during that time, I was able to >>field >>question from the mind of a 9-year old and not the questions that >>would have derived from a mind of a child that was turned-upside >>down or inside out from reading such a book. >> >>Netta >>"Just because you are blind does not mean you lack vision"-Stevie >>Wonder >>