RE: [ConstellationTalk] Distingusih between perpetrator and perpetrator energy

  • From: "ursula klum" <klumurs@xxxxxxxxxxx>
  • To: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • Date: Fri, 30 Sep 2005 13:56:24 -0300




From: "Simon Ho" <hoping_man33@xxxxxxxxxxxx>
Reply-To: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
To: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [ConstellationTalk] Distingusih between perpetrator and perpetrator energy
Date: Thu, 29 Sep 2005 10:43:21 -0000

--- In ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, "ursula klum"
<klumurs@h...> wrote:

Form viewing from Bert Hellinger's work, he used to not let clients
to bow to Murderer's representative when he is still full of
perpetrator engergy - physicall stern, rigid, seeing without actual
looking (de-focus).... However, when murderer's representative was
softened (maybe after reconcilation with Victims), clients might bow
to the so called "perpetrators) or even asked for blessings.

Bowing to perpetrators' representative may when he/she is still full
of perpetrator energy may hinder the process of reconcilation.

Example Case: DVD for Taipei- "Children- Mirror of the Family" ,
First case is an austic child. Bert Hellinger let him embraced by a
murderer's representative (who murdered her maternal grandfather's
brother).

But I think the fundamental philisohpy has not been changed:  avoid
the burden of systemic guilt on descendent of perpetrator and victims.

Simon Ho
Hong Kong

Dear Simon Ho,

what you are writing about the change in the perpetrator's energy and thereby the change in respect or honor makes a lot of sense to me. Thank you for your sharing.

URSULA Klum, Canada

 




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