--- In ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, "ursula klum"
<klumurs@h...> wrote:
Form viewing from Bert Hellinger's work, he used to not let clients
to bow to Murderer's representative when he is still full of
perpetrator engergy - physicall stern, rigid, seeing without actual
looking (de-focus).... However, when murderer's representative was
softened (maybe after reconcilation with Victims), clients might bow
to the so called "perpetrators) or even asked for blessings.
Bowing to perpetrators' representative may when he/she is still full
of perpetrator energy may hinder the process of reconcilation.
Example Case: DVD for Taipei- "Children- Mirror of the Family" ,
First case is an austic child. Bert Hellinger let him embraced by a
murderer's representative (who murdered her maternal grandfather's
brother).
But I think the fundamental philisohpy has not been changed: avoid
the burden of systemic guilt on descendent of perpetrator and victims.
Simon Ho
Hong Kong
