Dear Ed
Thankyou for your wonderful piece that reminded me of one of the great
lessons I learnt from my involvement in SCW - Grief is as two way process -
as much for the deceased as for the those left alive. The bilateral pain of
loss of physical connection. I had previously thought about it only in
terms of those left living.
Thanks for the reminder.
hasta la vista
Chris Walsh
Melbourne, Australia
webpage: www.cwalsh.com.au
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Subject: Re: [ConstellationTalk] Funeral
How much we so want the dead one to know we miss him or her If we sob and
cry
enough will we be sure they know? We can no longer see them, hear them,
touch
them. Seeing without their being seen, talking without their hearing,
reaching to touch without their bodies to receive.. We will go to a psychic
to get a
possible comforting word from the dead one or retell about the person to
just make sure they hear us because after awhile the alive ones do not want
to
hear about it anymore. And the dead one? He or she is sobbing too, trying to
reach back to us in dreams and thru psychics and signs. The dead one's
effectss/affects last a long time on... it hurts...
As we heal, so do they and we move on in life and they move on in death,
into
deep eternal rest.
Ed Lynch
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