Does the new step in moderating also mean that C-Talk goes off line when Chris
is off line?
That would be a huge reduction in flow.
Barb
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-----Original Message-----
From: "Anutoshf" <anutoshf@xxxxxxxxx>
Date: Mon, 15 Dec 2008 07:29:18
To: <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Subject: Re: [ConstellationTalk] Group moderation & C.Talk Guidelines
Dear Friends
Thank you Alemka and Sneh.
You have both expressed very clearly my viceral response to the moderation
process.
Yes, let the forum fly. We have all heard this before that out of chaos, many
stars are born.
Dietrich Weth used to say that this work is so much "Bigger" then us and it is
really not in our hands and i see this "Bigger" being expressed here amongst us
as we share ourselves through this forum being inspired by the gift of this
work.
Thank you Chris for making it possible for us to meet in this way which invites
for lots of stretching and being naked with each other. I am not comfortable
with anyone's contribution being excluded. We already know that we are each
part of the bigger whole and this work broadcasts it very loudly and clearly. I
agree with Sneh that we have the innate ability to monitor for ourselves and
bounce back. Besides all the differences make it more juicy and fun. Also if my
buttons get pushed, so much the better as this will prevent me from snoring
into Life and thinking i know it all.
Thank you Max regarding the rightful place for Bert Hellinger for ISCA. I
consider this gesture, Constellation Work 101. If not, all of these years of
exploring this work and growing with it would truly be in vain in my opinion.
many hugs
Anutosh
----- Original Message -----
From: Sneh Victoria
To: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sent: Sunday, December 14, 2008 10:40 AM
Subject: Re: [ConstellationTalk] Group moderation & C.Talk Guidelines
Dear Chris,
The new addition in the moderation process does something funny with
me. It rather diminishes my joy of sharing in this forum.
I am still pondering why, and nevertheless will try to explain. So
far I found this forum a most beautiful place to share, explore and
have fun. For this I am utterly grateful to you. Just today I talked
with my group of trainees about it, encouraging them to join, talking
about the great open minded discussions we are having. Now I feel I
might have offered a toothless tiger to them.
What made you feel it necessary to go in this direction? I truly find
it a pity. I also believe it rather feeds distrust and hampers open
discussion. But I also must say I have no idea what disturbing mails
if any you might have had to deal with in the past. (But even than I
would rather like to choose to have my own opinion about it.)
And: I am totally aware this being your forum and therefore you
should truly do what fits to your needs. I also am glad you ask for
feedback and that is what I am trying to do with this mail.
I believe there is a part in me who wants to say: relax, you do not
need to protect us, we are all grown up and certainly had to deal
with a lot of worse stuff in our lives than hurtful and unfriendly
feedback. I just cannot believe that any one working with the tuff
issues we often have to face in constellations would want to choose
to take part in a forum that feels like a toothless tiger. So my
suggestion is: give some credit to our all ability to bounce back,
our own good judgement and let the forum fly!
With warmth, Sneh
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