Beautiful Bettina!
Thanks for wake me up with yor wake-up :)
And thanks to all CT-members for being here, specially for the youngest as
me
Julio
2011/8/22 Bettina Casimir <bc.selfdiscovery@xxxxxxxxx>
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Dear Julio! One of my wake-ups as facilitator was to become clear that i am
not rescuing, but empowering!
(sweet surrender)
What is very helpful to me and our group is to set an intention (each
individually) before each session.
A good point to start as facilitator with this process of empowerment.
So, thank you to remind me about using clarity and purpose at every step in
this work...
It sounds to me that you could work with her about the issues around her
remark: "I don't want to doubt aboutyour professionalism, but my children
and I are worse and worse; tell me what can we do". There are a bunch of
hints in there.
Clearly she is willing to do more work and so allowing her to explore her
blindspots and expectations (leading to sadness),
as well as giving her the space to experience empowerment and a sense of
Self vs. other character strategies is a great gift.
Interesting that she came into your life... huh?!
Namaste,
Bettina
...let what you love be who you are...
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From: Julio Príncipe <principejulio@xxxxxxxxx>
To: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sent: Sunday, August 21, 2011 9:58 PM
Subject: [ConstellationTalk] about healing and crisis process (suggestions,
please)
Dear all:
A week ago, a woman came to me for a constellation work. She was referred
by
another person (also a referred), and before our individual session, she
participated in a workshop I led.
In the interview process she talk about her family, a sexual trauma of her
childhood, and also about her sons (a girl of 20s and a boy of 16; the boy
is in drugs on these days). After that, she chose to work on her "sadness".
A couple of days after the constellation work, she wrote me talking about
how the situation with their kids were "worst". I respond by saying that
sometimes there are crisis before healing; never happened to me before with
another client, but could be. I was avalaible if she was needed me.
Tonight, there's an e-mail in my inbox saying: "I don't want to doubt about
your professionalism, but my children and I are worse and worse; tell me
what can we do".
At this point, I have some learnings; for example: I didn't felt she was
100% clear about her constellation "issue"; but it was clear to us that "a
good result" would be leave my office with more peace and quiet feelings
(what, in fact, happened).
What I think is to meet with her again, and help finding other resources.
Your comments and suggestions will be very valuable, because it's the first
time I have this kind of situation with a client.
a big hug,
Julio Principe
Peru
PS.- I appreciate your understanding and apologize for my English (is not
my
first language)
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