Dear Otteline and all,
How beautifully seen and expressed, both in regard to forgiveness and what we
expect of constellation work.
I have little to add, except that some years ago I was talking to someone about
the work and Hellinger's take on forgiveness as I understood it then, which was
that forgiveness involved a moral superiority and would therefore distort the
relative size of the forgiver and the forgiven. As we talked, I asked him what
he meant by forgiveness and his description was very much along the lines that
you mentioned - an inner peace within the soul. It seemed to me that this was
very much the state that ariseswhen entanglements are resolved rather than
reinforced.
Patrick Kavanagh
