Thanks Robert,
for creating clarity around this.
It is so important that we don't "push the river" and stay present and tune
into the energy of the client's system, recognising when there is an
impulse in us to get things "in order" for the client while the order is
not ready to emerge.
"We shall be careful..."
Michael Leunig poet and cartoonist from Australia says it beautifully:
*"We pray for the fragile ecology of the heart and the mind. The sense of
meaning. So finely assembled and balanced and so easily overturned. The
careful, ongoing construction of love. As painful and exhausting as the
struggle for truth and as easily abandoned.*
*Hard-fought and won are the shifting sands of this sacred ground, this
ecology. Easy to desecrate and difficult to defend, this vulnerable joy,
this exposed faith, this precious order. This sanity.*
*We shall be careful. With others and with ourselves.*
*Amen"*
Best wishes
Brigitte
On Sun, May 5, 2013 at 9:09 AM, Robert Grant <erebees@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Dear Friends,
I always find the subtle implications significant. To me resistance implies
pressure. In my observation under truly healing conditions energy seems to
flow rather effortlessly. If there is resistance maybe healing conditions
have not yet been facilitated. In some less than happy experiences of
constellation work I have witnessed facilitators pressuring clients to bow
in the name of the greater good healing god.
Humbling resistant clients quickly carries the danger of putting an agenda
ahead of the clients reality. Do we really need to humble resistance? Cant
we wait for it to fall away on its own? If we dont look into our own
hearts what are we?
Best wishes to all,
Robert
On Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:35 AM, gary stuart <Gary@xxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
**will
Great BOWING Thread .
I find many times when Clients have a resistance to Bowing (too Big) that
they SIT DOWN is a Chair in front of their Family System or Parent Their
BODY knows its order and humbleness just in Sitting LOWER than their
Ancestors or Parents Worst case you can have the resistant Client Stand
behind their Rep in a Chair sitting and Bowing for them as their Soul
get it and the Body knows ORDER LOVE and HARMONY without the Ego fightingarises
against Inner Peace
1 new concept I use in a situation is let the Client Be their Mother..
Facing their own Rep or grandmother facing their Mother AMAZING how fast
they GET IT then . We are all extensions of them and to be in their shoes
humbles resistant clients quickly. At the very least they own the part of
them that is the others. Hence a deeper compassion and understating
at lightning speed .
Namaste, Gary Stuart LA, CA
<http://www.chifield.com> www.chifield.com
and
3A%20Honoring%20%28bowing%29%20in%20Judaism> "Robert Grant"
Dear Adrian and All,
As many of us will know bowing is a powerful ritual with powerful healing
property when used correctly. It can also be a strong re-traumatising,
abusive and harmful event if used as an instruction by an authoritarian
facilitator. We need to be sensitive to the feeling dynamics in clients
representatives alike. However what we need to be most aware of is ourown
feelings as we conduct a constellation.truly,
At the verge of a genuine reconciliation moment when the players are
truly ready and only their lack of familiarity with bowing stops them, Iright
may suggest as a possibility to experiment with bowing if it feels
for them.
Best wishes to all,
Robert
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