Dear collegues,
I fully aggree with Hunter's statement, but I would like to ask you to think
about one point:
What are you doing when you discuss a case in the net (or if you discuss it at
all)? What is
the influence on the field, on the client, and on yourself?
Of course we can discuss methodological questions and use certain cases as
illustrations.
But it is something else to discuss a case and it's meanings in the net. To me
a
constellation is finished when it is finished. Each and every considerations or
interpretations afterwards are weekening: How can a client trust the
constellation or take
the picture in if the facilitator starts discussing, doubting, interpreting, or
asking others
for interpretation? Whatsoever somebody else contributes to this constellation
is not
helping the client or the therapist.
Wilfried Nellest
--- In ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, "Margreet Mossel"
<margreetmossel@...>
wrote:
I would ask myself where this representative was looking at just before he
or she started to turn and look around. Sometimes there is only a very short
look at the ground or look in the far distance or at another person that is
the clou and the other movement could be to avoid looking in that direction.
But the image in the constellation is most important, and it takes many
words to describe an image, almost impossible to share what you have seen in
a constellation.
I agree with not judging but I would like to add to that: you have to be
able to discern certain between movements or images before you can act on
them. For example: you have to know whether a person is looking at something
or looking away from something. Just like you have to understand if someone
is feeling bigger than someone else, or what age a person looks in a
constellation, or what relationship shows up, more like a parent child or
more like partners. And whether it is a movement of the conscience or of the
soul, or whether you look at the entanglement or at the solution.
That is part of the art, I would say.
Kind regards
Margreet Mossel
www.opstellingen.com <http://www.opstellingen.com/>
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Van: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
[mailto:ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx] Namens Barbara Eggenberger
Verzonden: vrijdag 30 mei 2008 22:41
Aan: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Onderwerp: [ConstellationTalk] Perpetrator energy
I have a question about what it means in a constellation when someone is
slowly turning around and around as if looking in all directions? Someone
once said that it is an indication of a perpetrator and if that is so, can
someone explain it to me? For instance, does it mean that person is
representing a perpetrator or is looking for one? Also, what is an
appropriate response? I have had this show up in three separate cases
recently and though I was able to reach resolution, I find myself feeling
uneasy that I might be missing something important.
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