Hey there Max thanks for your thoughtful post. Perhaps some currents in the
river created by Shelldrake's "formative causation" have a stronger formflow
than others, an enduring presence the akashic residues of which are meant to
inspire us ...and to lead us,metaphor seen through a glass clearly, to the
brotherhood of humanity to care for each other before some cosmic accident?
Perhaps the Jerusalem Hug needs to go planetary so that Abahamic Jihad does not
cancel movement to Omega...check out Chris Bache and his book on karma and
shelldrake drjmpirone@xxxxxxx
Torah says your children shall drema great dreams....perhaps lesser dreams are
metaphors for bigger ones?
On Monday, May 28, 2007, at 02:39AM, "Max Dauskardt" <max@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
wrote:
Dear Annie,
thanks for your frank sharing
which triggered the following:
during my initial training at one stage all my parent's six children (of
whom I am no. 4) stood in line represented.
No. 1 (had died first), said something, no.2 (had died second)said
something, 3, 4, 5 (alive) said something til finally no.6 (died age 16 in
motobike accident) said: rather then wait for my turn (to die) I jumped
the queue.
Your lines made me aware again how idelible the image of the rep of No.6
has been etched in my mind, how much I am connected to that moment he
made his statement.
However I never saw the man since. Am I connected to the rep?
Perhaps the key sentence in your mail is:
'These feelings persist despite my real-life
knowledge and continued exposure to these people'
and in that sentence perhaps the key word is: despite
now taking the liberty to replace 'despite' with 'because of':
These feelings persist because of my real-life
knowledge and continued exposure to these people.
and the thrust of your query is directed towards the possibility of
something in your relationship with the then reps is lingering.
Just a thought,
all best,
Max
Dear colleagues,
As a constellator in New York City I have observed a phenomenon both
within myself and some participants in my groups. I'd appreciate any
comments you may have concerning lingering transference issues.
My initial training as a facilitator was completed five years ago.
Despite initial clearing exercises and the passage of time,I still
retain strong feelings for those group members who represented in my
personal constellations. These feelings persist despite my real-life
knowledge and continued exposure to these people.Participants in my
group have experienced the same phenomenon resulting from powerful
personal work, despite the clearing exercises and cautions that I
offer in our workshops.
I haven't experienced these transferences as a problem, but it
certainly is something of which to be mindful.
Any thoughts, ideas, suggestions?
Annie Block Pearl, M.S.
Integrative Therapy
Systemic, Structural and Family Constellations
ordained Interfaith Minister
www.annieblockpearl.com
