Dear Annie,
From my experience, this phenomenon can cause big problems in some people.
Even if I achieved my formation some years ago, I continue to work
exclusively in individual sessions, sometimes with all family members. Why?
Because, since the beginning I assist to those issues. Too many people come
to me having taken from other people when being representants. Going to
extremly havy diseases. For my self, I think that the roots of the disease
are in the person self but that the disease was activated through the work
in the constellations...
Many of the people seem to have spoken those sentences to give back to the
person concerned. One constallator can not be too attentive to the people
who come to him/her. And it takes time to control the people for not taking
home something that doesn't belong to them.
Sai Baba has proposed a solution to constellors.... a solution that works.
Kind regards
Joallyn Dawirs
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Date : Sun, 27 May 2007 20:44:37 -0000
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Objet : [ConstellationTalk] lingering transference issues
Dear colleagues,
As a constellator in New York City I have observed a phenomenon both
within myself and some participants in my groups. I'd appreciate any
comments you may have concerning lingering transference issues.
My initial training as a facilitator was completed five years ago.
Despite initial clearing exercises and the passage of time,I still
retain strong feelings for those group members who represented in my
personal constellations. These feelings persist despite my real-life
knowledge and continued exposure to these people.Participants in my
group have experienced the same phenomenon resulting from powerful
personal work, despite the clearing exercises and cautions that I
offer in our workshops.
I haven't experienced these transferences as a problem, but it
certainly is something of which to be mindful.
Any thoughts, ideas, suggestions?
Annie Block Pearl, M.S.
Integrative Therapy
Systemic, Structural and Family Constellations
ordained Interfaith Minister
www.annieblockpearl.com
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