Dear Dee Yoh
You have a very wise father. Thank you for sharing and it has prompted me to
share too.
Yes, this work must be as ancient as our souls. Perhaps forgotten along the way
as we got more into our minds and away from our essence which we all most
thirst and longed for.
In my opinion, Mr. Hellinger is just a vehicle for these gifts to come thru
especially for us in the academic world at these times when we on a collective
level are ready. Now many of you facilitators have also been called and each
with your uniqueness to share. Different flowers, different fragrances, colours
and etc.
Isn't it precious that there are no carbon copies! Existence is so generous
that way.
I have never heard Hellinger say that only he can do this work. In fact in
1988 when i first attended his workshop, he said anyone can do this work. I do
not faciltate and have enjoyed hosting these workshops when the opportunity
allows.
About Hellinger Scientia, i personally feel that he has the right to charge for
royalties if anyone is going to use his family name for their work. He is not
putting a gun to anyone's head to use it but if you must then pay. It makes
good business sense for him and he has the right to protect his family name.
Could it be that Hellinger Scientia have birthed itself during the time when
there was so much gossips about him, his new wife and his new way of working
and perhaps this is how the "Field" balances itself?!
He openly mentioned in Pich 1 that he had found a new respect for business
which he did not take care of before. I appreciated that he openly declared
that and at age 84, he is still learning.
It may appear that i am taking sides and am not. Such is the limitation of
words. Thanks to you, Dee Yoh, i will borrow your same quote from Rhett Butler!
It has been wonderful for me to taste the different flavours that each
facilitator while in service to this work have contributed. Clearly hidden in
diversity is harmony. Such is the paradox of this precious life and i get to
grow up thru it all.
Cult is an interesting subject too. I think we all belong to some cult or
another. I think if it is more then one person, it is a cult :-))
I think a family is a cult.
in reverence
Anutosh
----- Original Message -----
From: Dee Yoh
To: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sent: Thursday, May 29, 2008 10:03 PM
Subject: Re: [ConstellationTalk] ISCA Letter
I too have just been quietly listening but will now share a few thoughts.
When I was young my father was a preacher of a little country church that
held Sunday morning services.
Sunday evenings we visited different churches of all different faiths. One
day I asked my Dad what faith we were because we attend so many different
churches. The answer my father shared with me that day I have carried with me
all through my life and I find it serves me well today.
"Listen to every man. Take in all they say, then internally, you sort it out.
You take what resonates with your soul and the rest, you leave without
judgment." He furthered explained the illusion of right or wrong, but different
paths. A piece that I may be leave behind will serve another very well. What
serves me well may not resonate with another. But rest assured, in each person,
you can find something to take away for yourself. Focus on that, and let the
rest go!
He also warned me: Be careful if you take in everything any one person
believes, no one man has all the answers....
Just as no one man holds the key to any knowledge. It is all in the field and
it's a matter of what we experience and find in the moment. Sheila pointed
out... Nothing is really new... Bert set up many people without them knowing
who they are. Looked a lot like Sneh's coyote constellations. What Bert now
calls 3 dimensional work/Spirit Mind looks a lot like work Gabrielle Borkin
started doing/teaching back in 2001. I remember in DC a couple years ago Bert
set up an aspect and said it was the first time he had done this. It surprised
me... we had been working with aspects for years and I didn't even realize he
wasn't doing it yet. This doesn't take away from what he is doing, just shows
that the information is in the field and no one person owns it. How can anyone
own it? Bert pioneered this work and holds that place of honor. Then we find
things that are new to us. And at the same time, someone half way around the
world may be sensing the same thing. So sometimes we discover things that are
new to us. Sometimes we see others and learn from their ways. And through this
our own unique thumbprint becomes our own. Just like the experiences of many
churches, I don't believe any one way is better or worse than another. One
thing I LOVE about this work is that there are many different ways. I embrace
the diversity in each one of us.
I was once told I HAD to make a decision as to what "side" I would stand. I
choose not to choose. I have the deepest respect and gratitude for ALL those
from whom I have learned (and continue to learn). I choose to learn from all,
take what resonates with my soul and leave the rest, without judgment.
Which side do you choose to stand? For my purpose, it is not necessary to
say..... To quote Rhett Butler: "Frankly Scarlett, I just don't give a damn!"
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