Hi Sadhana,
The issue of cruelty that has also crossed these pages in the past few
weeks mirrors the idealistic realm of good conscience, otherwise it is not
cruel. Reflecting upon life and nature itself, is there any cruelty? An
eagle devours a rabbit, a lion kills a
deer...........feeding..........living......dying.....paying with
life....taking for strength......I suspect cruelty is a product of human
mind and its perceptions. What appears cruel to the mind today, could be
the pain of an inner seed cracking. A small or large crack that facilitates
growth when the time and atmosphere is right. Some choose to walk around
cracked for lifetimes........others can bloom in an instant. These
interpretations of Hellingers cruelty "feed" something else here that is
not about preserving life. Neither is Hellingers "cruelty" in those moments
about preserving. It is about destroying, something that is interferring
with a movement towards life. ..........that is real preservation.....no
protection needed.
Those are poetic words above and to me even true on some level, but not on
the level of the actual, the real, the now. With other words a theoretical
observation. Unless I am starving hungry the eagle devouring a rabbit FEELS
cruel.
Some choose to walk around cracked for lifetimes to me that statement
also feels cruel, for I do not see choice in there at all. Behind the idea
of choice I sense my own personal predilection to credit, to blame, to
want, to not want. So as usual, the buck stops with me.
And finally in terms of simple pragmatism; safety, support, benevolent
support seems to unlock that choiceless cracked hurt we walk around with.
Behind it all I want to feel safe. First safe by being supported, and
ultimately safe because of fearlessness born of recognition and realisation.
Best wishes,
Robert
On Tue, Feb 14, 2012 at 3:30 AM, Kay Needham <
familyconstellationinfo@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:
**
Hello Judy,
I like your comment "In the meantime I require 100 % of myself". I feel
this is the most important aspect regarding the future of this work. To be
authentic 100%, to know thyself. You know, this is the only qualification
that is able to carry this work, once the basic workings of conscience are
understood. The transformational air of this work remains just
that.......air......its power and work happens in an "atmosphere", a
magnetic field of conscience resonance, a field. You see it in Hellingers
trainings.........no formal, nor intellectually driven understandings here.
Something else is happening here, life is happening, beyond the mind,
spirit mind is happening. A magnetism, a resonance, sychronocity, being
drawn beyond the self, in spite of the self, in an "atmosphere" of spirit
meeting mind. That is effective, transformational, life changing. As others
here have insinuated, each facilitator is capable of creating such a
powerful field,
atmosphere, via their very own transformation and life
affirmitiveness........... and earnt strength.
The issue of cruelty that has also crossed these pages in the past few
weeks mirrors the idealistic realm of good conscience, otherwise it is not
cruel. Reflecting upon life and nature itself, is there any cruelty? An
eagle devours a rabbit, a lion kills a
deer...........feeding..........living......dying.....paying with
life....taking for strength......I suspect cruelty is a product of human
mind and its perceptions. What appears cruel to the mind today, could be
the pain of an inner seed cracking. A small or large crack that facilitates
growth when the time and atmosphere is right. Some choose to walk around
cracked for lifetimes........others can bloom in an instant. These
interpretations of Hellingers cruelty "feed" something else here that is
not about preserving life. Neither is Hellingers "cruelty" in those moments
about preserving. It is about destroying, something that is interferring
with a movement towards life. ..........that is real
preservation.....no protection needed.
Kind regards
Sadhana
