On the subject of heart disease I do have a story to share. I saw a
constellation where an 83 year old man was in an experimental treatment for a
heart condition that no one understood. He set up his heart and himself. The
representatives were blind. What unfolded was so precious and amazing the
whole room was in tears. The heart kept looking up and exclaiming how
beautiful it was up there. The man kept looking too but claimed not to see
anything. The heart yearned to go there and each time she expressed that, the
man would get very anxious. The heart would then soothe the man and tell him
it was okay, they didn't need to go. At the end, they sat back to back with
the man leaning on the heart. The heart kept looking up pensively and the man
sat looking down and depressed. Then the heart said to the man, "It's okay.
We have plenty of time." And then they sat there together quietly. The client
realized he didn't need to be in an experimental treatment program. It was c
lear to him what was going on with his heart. Isn't that lovely? I love this
work!
Barbara in Sacramento, CA
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From: cmegighianzenati@xxxxxxx
dear constellation colleagues. I am going to discuss with an academic
psycologist a study with heart disease patients and heart transplant
patients who are not responding well to conventional therapy. In my
proposal I will offer to consider a Family Constellation approach. I
would appreciate if you had any experience to share or any good reading
of work already done.
Thankfully
Chiara
Dr. Chiara H. Megighian-Zenati
104 Hawthorne Rd
Pittsburgh, PA 15238
-----Original Message-----
From: Jonine Lee <satoribreath@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
To: ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sent: Tue, 5 Jun 2007 9:10 am
Subject: Re: [ConstellationTalk] transference of symptoms between
siblings
I am reminded of the story Bert wrote or I came across in
FC writings,
about the doctor that visited a patient
and saw death standing at the end of the bed,,,,,not wanting his young
patient to die
he turned the bed around and the following week he died...
do we just keep moving the bed around.....until we gain the insight
that we
need in order to find a deeper or different level of acceptance...
Jonine Lee
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From: "Ulrike Danks" <ulrikedanks@xxxxxxxxxxx>
To: <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Sent: Monday, June 04, 2007 6:43 PM
Subject: RE: [ConstellationTalk] transference of symptoms between
siblings
Dear all,
I was just browsing the internet in pursue of a particular FC topic,when
I
came across a paragraph that surprised and touched me as it couldrelate
to
our family.
Here is the paragraph from a German interview of Stefan Hausner by
Marianne
Franke published on Stefan's website www.stephan-hausner.de:
'Ich habe auch immer wieder erlebt, wenn sich ein Geschwister auseiner
Verstrickung löst, es manchmal ein anderes Kind aus dieser Familie
plötzlich
schwerer hat oder sogar die Symptome übernimmt: Das findet man vorallem
dann, wenn die Eltern, aus welchem Grund auch immer, sich dem
ausgegrenzten
Thema nicht stellen können.'
english Translation:
'I have expereinced again and again, that when one sibling resolves an
entanglement for him/herself, sometimes another sibling of this family
suddenly has a hard time or even takes on the symptoms: You find that
particularily when for whatever reasons the parents are not able to
address
the excluded issue'
This appears to be the case in our family, where my sister (having had
several cancer scares) and myself ( having been through treatment and
recovery) have after much work and soul movements disentangledourselves
from our father's/parents fate's and have a brother, who is now verysick
with cancer. Being familiar with the particular systemicentanglement,
that
led to the female siblings dis-eases, I know that my brother is also
entangled in a very similar way.
Has anybody experienced similar fates or encountered them in theirwork? I
want to say that I am at peace with my brother's fate, and (not but)his
pain and fear touches my heart and makes me feel closer than ever tohim.
I have not heard before about this particular possibility oftranference.
With gratitude to all of you for the many rich learnings I receivevia
this
forum.
Ulrike
Ulrike Danks
Systems and Family Constellations WA
10 Bavin St. Denmark WA 6333
Western Australia - 61 - (0)8 - 98481280
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