Hi
Thank you for asking
The fomulated intent is to feel better, not to struggle with her mother anymore
and to be in harmony and peace with the whole family
Best
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What is the client's formulated intent?
best regards
Heiki Eesmaa
On Mon, Jul 7, 2014 at 3:03 PM,
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wrote:
Dear all
I have a question on a mother issue, and I ask your kind advice on how to
better treat my client
My client (woman) has spent the first 2 years of her childhood far from mammy
(in Iran) because mother wanted to finish studies and had no time for her.
Family (mother and father and daughter were living in Belgium (Europe)
This was an accidental birth and the mother decided (against the wish of her
husband) to send the child back to Iran to her grand parents
Once back to Belgian (where the family used to live) the child had a normal
life, 2 more sisters in the family were born.
At the age of 12 mother started to become depressive and the young girl was
involved in the family life (helping 2 sisters, preparing cooking and managing
the house).
At the age of 16 mother told the child that she had 'fun' with her father, like
they were in a couple, and the mother was very allusive to the fact that the
young daughter was the new 'partner' of her husband and that she had stolen her
place (as if she was his wife)
This was not true of course, and my client was responsible and felt obliged to
take care of the 2 sisters and of the house because she was the elder
The couple split and got divorce sooner after
Father came back to Iran, and daughter is now married (26) to a young Iranian
man: both are happily living in BXL. Daughter has a wonderful relationship with
her father and once a year she is going to visit him in Iran
We have done 1 constellation in a group, and it was clear that relationship
between daughter and mother is not good. My client is hating her mother, and
she cannot bear her life's style. She is screaming all the time, yelling to her
and they have nothing in common.
How to start the reconciliation movement? How to feel where the energy is?
Can you pls advice?
Thank you
Daniela
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