Dear Dipa,
To forgive....
What does it mean? Really?
What kind of process it develops inside of us?
For most of people, to forgive is a kind of way to be best than the
other (the perpetrator to give a name), this has a profound
'religious' connotation. We have to forgive to be worth in the eyes
of God. And than, we forgive on a mental level, but we keep the
emotions inside of our hearts (hate, sadness....) And we place
ourselves 'above' the other one.
The real forgiveness frees us completly. It's a movment of our soul.
It said, it is ok. What happens is OK. Whatever it was. Whithout
judgement, without any kind of emotion, only with unconditionnal love.
That kind of forgiveness doesn't place us 'above' the perpatrator but
on the same level that why it brings back balance in a system.
When a person can express that kind of forgiveness, everybody in the
room is suddenly full of love, peace and joy. We connect at such
moments our real state of Human Beings.
It is also clear that a lot of people are not yet able to express
such forgiveness. What to do in such cases?
When we work in connection to our HIgher Consciousness (whatever
name we give it in our heart), we can ask that Higher Consciousness
to be part of the process. To do this is, we can imagine a triangle
between, the two persons and the Higher Consciousness. And ask that
higher part of us to express forgiveness.
It works.
With the time, the victim will also be able to be in forgiveness. In
unconditionnal love. And a real balance will take place in the system.
I hope you will soon experience such kid of forgiveness; then your
cells will know for ever.
With love
Joallyn
Le 08-déc.-09 à 18:18, eins a écrit :
Hi all,
Dipa from Singapore here. being a 'newbie' in this work, could any
of you speak about 'forgiveness' in constellation work?
i'm a little unclear in that area as I understand that when the
victim 'forgives' the perpetrator, the victim is elevating him/
herself above the perpetrator. so that is not helpful. how does
forgiveness work then to bring about balance and order again in a
system ? examples would be great.
thanks!
blessings,
Dipa
