Dear Helena,
Just recently we facilitated a constellation where a woman was very concerned about her son (in his teens as far as I remember) who's father was an anonymous sperm donor, as she and her husband were not able to have children. The boy knew this from early age on. As soon as the constellation was set up and the biological father was placed into the constellation both the biological father and the boy were very attracted to each other and - to our great surprise - there was a huge love on both sides. We stopped the constellation where the 3 men (father, biol. father and the son) were standing close together. We do not know how it went on with the boy in his life from there on.
We were surprised as we had earlier experiences, where 2 women had a son from an anonymous sperm donor, and in this constellation a solution for the boy was to go to a male in the family of his mother for malesupport. His biological father was important for the boy, but the father uninterested and not available in the constellation. In this case the biological mother was also very concerned about her son. May be the mothers carried different images of the donor in their souls? Who will tell for sure?
Anyway, we stopped having theories around this issue, except to be very carefull and think twice if you go for a sperm donor at all.
Hope this will be of some help for you.
Otteline and Peter.
Op 28-jan-05 om 7:21 heeft Helena Sprake het volgende geschreven:
<x-tad-smaller>Does anyone have any experience or insights into a woman having a baby through a sperm bank?</x-tad-smaller>
<x-tad-smaller>Effect on her, the father/donor and the baby's soul.</x-tad-smaller>
<x-tad-smaller>How can the child have the father in the soul even though he is not present in her life.</x-tad-smaller>
<x-tad-smaller>Thanks - Helena Sprake</x-tad-smaller>
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