Dear Dan,
...be open to outcome, not attached to it...
I am also wondering about this one.
I could take it this way: my intention being to have the client leave
my session "relieved", and yet stay open to this maybe not being
possible. AND not feel bad about it. (Anyway we do not know what need
to happen to the client, with us, and in her life to come. Or why WE
need to experience our limits as therapist and person).
Well, another one of these questions that we will have to deal with
every time fresh. Sneh
