Hello Friends.. I have a comment to share on this topic...
I feel that being with *what is* can be a hard challenge
but when things are beyond our "control" like life usually is.
.we just have to keep our hearts aligned to the greater Love that permeates
all things.
Not everyone gets to make babies..
but there are so many children that need parents..so adopt.
As for the facilitator..we cannot speculate what happened or didn't
happen..we were not there..
And the people who were will get the messages they need in the
constellation form or something else..
I suspect that someone may have need for a spiritual counselor? to help
her thru this challenging perspective and experience..
Who is a good reference?
thanks for letting me give my input..
Alethea Devi, MATP
Alethea K. Devi
Mentor, Teacher, Auntie.
aletheadeviceremonies.com
aletheadevi.com
"FAITH IS TAKING THE FIRST STEP,
EVEN THOUGH YOU CANNOT SEE THE WHOLE STAIRCASE." MLK JR.
On Mon, Oct 12, 2015 at 3:42 PM, Robert Grant erebees@xxxxxxxxx
[ConstellationTalk] <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Hi All,
"So then the important question is am I helping her more if I offer her
ways out of this or if I simply accompany her in that place of despair?
When I look back over some of my moments of greatest despair I can see
they were the moments when the most profound changes happened in me. "
Great point Barbara. Yet despair we do not want, despair we resist. And
maybe it is despair, the loss of everything that is the price of freedom.
Work in progress, letter to myself.
Best wishes,
Robert
On Mon, Oct 12, 2015 at 6:54 PM, Barbara Morgan theknowingfield@xxxxxxxxx
[ConstellationTalk] <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
I remember one of my Gestalt trainers saying once: it's not what happens
that matters but what happens next.
In any case I wouldn't want to comment on what happened between this
facilitator and client in the workshop when I wasn't present to witness the
whole field but the most interesting part for me is that it was hard for
the client to stay in the place of feeling disempowered and despairing
afterwards.
So then the important question is am I helping her more if I offer her
ways out of this or if I simply accompany her in that place of despair?
When I look back over some of my moments of greatest despair I can see
they were the moments when the most profound changes happened in me.
Barbara
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