Hi All,
"So then the important question is am I helping her more if I offer her
ways out of this or if I simply accompany her in that place of despair?
When I look back over some of my moments of greatest despair I can see they
were the moments when the most profound changes happened in me. "
Great point Barbara. Yet despair we do not want, despair we resist. And
maybe it is despair, the loss of everything that is the price of freedom.
Work in progress, letter to myself.
Best wishes,
Robert
On Mon, Oct 12, 2015 at 6:54 PM, Barbara Morgan theknowingfield@xxxxxxxxx
[ConstellationTalk] <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
I remember one of my Gestalt trainers saying once: it's not what happens
that matters but what happens next.
In any case I wouldn't want to comment on what happened between this
facilitator and client in the workshop when I wasn't present to witness the
whole field but the most interesting part for me is that it was hard for
the client to stay in the place of feeling disempowered and despairing
afterwards.
So then the important question is am I helping her more if I offer her
ways out of this or if I simply accompany her in that place of despair?
When I look back over some of my moments of greatest despair I can see
they were the moments when the most profound changes happened in me.
Barbara
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