Hi Elmar,
My guess is that she is right. Nothing worked for her and all suggestions were
useless. Some may consider that she in fact does have connection to feelings -
called anger, but clearly she does not feel understood. So maybe it is time to
just be with her without suggestions and advice. Not easy when we feel
compelled to do things to avoid feeling powerless.
Best wishes,Monika
On Friday, October 9, 2020, 09:52:47 AM GMT+11, Elmar Dornberger
elmar@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx [ConstellationTalk]
<constellationtalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
I am wondering if anyone has worked with a highly traumatizes person.
The trauma stems from early childhood abuse by a narcissistic mother and an
absent father. This person has no connections to feelings and sensations. All
her reactions are either emotional flooding or anger. She has gone to a massage
therapist for 3 years and would feel exactly the same after every treatment as
before.She was her mother's slave, cooking, cleaning, caretaking, etc. She had
no friends and never developed a sense of herself. She is successful in
business working with numbers. What she wants is a family live. Anything I
suggest or do with her she rejects or claims she has done (everything) before
and nothing works.
I am not a beginner at this I am a Psychotherapist and a Constellation
Facilitator for over 20 years, and yet this is a new situation.
Yours,
Elmar
