Hi everyone ,
I too appreciate this dialogue- thank you Elmar. I am reminded that it is our
presence that heals and when in doubt, go within.
Sometimes, with a challenging situation and client such as this, it is helpful
for me to look at is what The Field is reflecting in myself and my own family.
I have asked myself, Who couldn’t or wouldn’t heal in my family, what is not
healing in me or what healing am I unable to take in for myself? Where do I
need to look now for my own healing so my healed presence is available for who
or whatever comes next. What support is needed?
By asking for support in this way as you have done Elmar, you and your brave
client have been teachers for me.
With gratitude,
Anne Sexton Bryan
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On Oct 9, 2020, at 9:28 AM, Katherine Revoir katherinerevoir@xxxxxxxxx
[ConstellationTalk] <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
I’m really enjoying this discussion, and I liked what Barbara said:
"If you want her to heal more than she wants to heal, nothing will work."
I would say it a little differently: "If you want her to heal more than she
wants to heal (or has the internal resources with which to move forward),
this is not your work to do.”
Many times I have reached out in such a way that I find myself caught in the
web of the convergence of the client’s entanglements and my own.
Warmly, Katherine
Katherine Revoir
Center for Richer Living
http://www.RicherLiving.org