We did a template Constellation about this issue in the trauma and
Constellation training I just attended with Bertold Ulsamer. Maybe Kathy or
Bruce you have better notes than I have about this and can way in? I think
the healing lied in the father turning around to his own family system and
saying "I am loyal." And "here I am the child". There was a recognition of
sexual feelings of parents towards their child of the opposite sex and how
this was passed down from generations. Hopefully someone else has a more
thorough recollection, as it is late and I can't seem to remember well
enough.
Blessings on your work, those sorts of feelings are present to some degree
in almost all family systems, I am sure there are more resources on this.
Laure
On Jun 6, 2017 22:12, "Dr Liz Jelinek lizjelinek@xxxxxxxxxxx
[ConstellationTalk]" <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
I have a male client who's 65+. He admitted to me finally that he has
feelings of lust for his married daughter. She's furious with him and
refuses to talk to him. She tells her mother he's impossible to be with so
she's staying away from all family functions until she "heals." I asked him
directly if he ever touched her inappropriately. He remembers nothing but
has agreed to work on that possibility.
He attends my Facilitator Training, regular and Trauma workshops and also
sees me individually.
I'd appreciate any suggestions. I work well with Playmobil figures in
individual sessions, but wonder what you folks recommend.
There's also evidence he may have been molested by a resident of the
facility for delinquent teenagers his father ran. The family lived right in
the facility and he admits being regularly left alone with several of these
troubled teens.
Thx for any feedback or suggestions. BTW he was separated from mom
following birth because he was so tiny.
Best Liz
Liz Jelinek, PhD
