Thanks Laure for reminding me of Berthold’s work—I had forgotten! The client
just admitted this to me in a phone consult this week, although I’ve been
seeing him for quite a long time. I’ll take this thought to my dreams to think
about and perhaps I can recall the piece.
Isn’t the field amazing? My client is opening up since I returned from the
Trauma workshop!
And no, Dear Bizden he is NOT Muslim—but he actually doesn’t KNOW what he is
because his grandfather came from the Ukraine to the US and there is NO record
in the Ukraine the grandfather ever existed. (This man’s father claimed to be
an atheist.)
Liz Jelinek, PhD
On Jun 7, 2017, at 12:46 AM, bizden titiz bizdentitiz@xxxxxxxxx
[ConstellationTalk] <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Hope he is not a "Muslim".
Unfortunately, a, i think, pedophile Muslim Clerk, Cübbeli Ahmet Hoca,
admitted he was aroused "even" by his child daughter, some years ago,
as an excuse and explanation of why women should cover up!!!???!!!!
Unfortunately, another one, the other day, declared men can marry 6 year olds!
The following day a five year old girl playing on the street was abducted,
raped and killed, on these, " sacred" days of Ramadan, by a 22 year old. And
everyone accuses the Mum who let the girl play on street unattended.
This fundemantelist bullshitting of any religion, this widespread ignorance
feeding
more and more psychopaths each day takes us where, i don't know.
We all need to work harder and spend more time on " pre-, peri-, postnatal
and childhood traumas" i'd propose.
i am raised a Muslim and my paternal great grandpa is an interpreter of
Kur'an, the book, and all, including all the terror and wars hid under the
word "cihad" has nothing to do with İslam.
And, of caurse, non of the above could have anything to do with any religion.
İ am sad.
Bizden
On 07 Jun 2017, at 04:12, Dr Liz Jelinek lizjelinek@xxxxxxxxxxx
<mailto:lizjelinek@xxxxxxxxxxx>[ConstellationTalk]
<ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
<mailto:ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>> wrote:
I have a male client who's 65+. He admitted to me finally that he has
feelings of lust for his married daughter. She's furious with him and
refuses to talk to him. She tells her mother he's impossible to be with so
she's staying away from all family functions until she "heals." I asked him
directly if he ever touched her inappropriately. He remembers nothing but
has agreed to work on that possibility.
He attends my Facilitator Training, regular and Trauma workshops and also
sees me individually.
I'd appreciate any suggestions. I work well with Playmobil figures in
individual sessions, but wonder what you folks recommend.
There's also evidence he may have been molested by a resident of the
facility for delinquent teenagers his father ran. The family lived right in
the facility and he admits being regularly left alone with several of these
troubled teens.
Thx for any feedback or suggestions. BTW he was separated from mom following
birth because he was so tiny.
Best Liz
Liz Jelinek, PhD
