Anni:
Thank you for both your post, in sum:
we are a part not the whole, a cog not the wheel, a leaf not the tree.
Those are merely the metaphors coming to mind right now. I was able to share
some salient points from this topic in a training I am a part of and they were
all well received.
In gratitude for the whole we are a small part of.
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On 18 Jan 2015, at 23:17, Stephen Webster dharmabandhu.051949@xxxxxxxxx
[ConstellationTalk] <ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Dear Anni
Thank you for making these observations
Steve Webster
On Sunday, 18 January 2015, annimukkala@xxxxxxxx [ConstellationTalk]
<ConstellationTalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Dear Alison and all,
I have just re-read your original post for this thread, Alison. What
strikes me is that you speak about events that involve forgiveness yet the
accounts you share are based on apologies, not on forgiveness although that
is a consequence.
For me, this is in line with the idea that we must first acknowledge that
for which we are responsible. Then from that a kind of reconciliation is
possible. Neither of your examples begin with forgiveness. They begin with
someone acknowledging their role.
One of the difficulties that can arise in constellations in general, is that
someone may find their role to be the solution. No one is ever the solution.
We are only small increments of acknowledging what is. There is a chance
one who chooses to do constellations too often can think of themselves as
the solution or a facilitator in some cases may even think themselves as a
solution. We are not the solution.
The solution is the flow of love through all things once again. This is gift.
Hugs, love to you all, Anni
